this isn't an activist site. sorry m8. but if you really want to know and your computer illiterate (i'm just spelling illiterate), right click the link and open in a new tab.

I am aware this is not an activist site... that's why I am rendering information about another site. And, MATE, I am not computer illiterate, and I know where to use "you're" and "your."

ok tried to be nice. but if your not computer illiterate then you'd (YOU WOULD) know that you do not need to copy and paste. all you would have had to say was to right click open in new tab. and m8 is just a nice way of saying friend. then again if you see above i'm illiterate. lol, then again idiots like you who like to start propaganda on things like this, don't care. you're (YOU ARE) not asking for support, YOU'RE (you are) not asking for anything but to advertise another site. people who start activism usually are a little erm.. patient. for my enlgish, not bad for being born in another country (Pusan, Korean). is everyone at cautionclick like you? if so i don't want to go there. shows the type of people they are (instead of THEY'RE). if they are so anal (Freudian definition) as YOU ARE (instead of you're) about English then count me out. wow lost a person there. aren't YOU suppose to be trying to get supporters? lol; you made me laugh; i love people like you. who think they are (THEY'RE) trying to be funny about the difference in the English language.

Your English isn't that great either. at least i know when using the word "AND" it is a linking prepositions word. meaning you need to put a comma after site 'and', which then makes your little paragraph a run on sentence. so don't pick on my english when yours (yes yours not you're) is just as bad.

we could both be little bitches about english and grammar, but really i was just telling you this is not an activist site, and was giving other people tips on how to open your link easier.

ps.

Gonna send ya a hug, because i think you need it :)

Wisconsin should be here any minute...wait for it...

lol @ amy wait for it. :) i lub ya amy. you know what i mean lol .

Thanks Blind-I didnt know about that site.

Thanks blind SOME of us like to keep informed about what's up..The others SHOULD be able to pick and choose, don't know why they don't

http://www.dailystrength.org/groups/families-of-sex-offenders/discussions/messages/14271154

This is coming from the an Admin (Wisconsinrsol), and so if you have issues about that; then take it up with her. Then the person started to pick on my english. That is the only reason why I snapped a verbal boot in his/her ass. now faeryedark what i SHOULD or SHOULDN'T do is really up to me, right? Now faeryedark say your sorry it's cool your forgiven.

ps. picking on my english is bashing, and belittling me, and because faeryedark like to point out how he/she is better than I, because he/she likes to be informed; now is BELITTLING me. wow gang up woot! makes me really think about writing anything here anymore. I get enough crap from the rl to be belittled, and now i get it here? o.O

For one..no apologies needed. ;-)

Second, YOU leaped first...
Third, Blind simply linked some info...there's in my mind (and I would imagine most people's minds) a difference between simply linking some info and going on and on about activism.
This is (I thought) an information and support site...unless we've gotten SOOO narrow now
Not everyone belongs to those half a dozen other sites

I'm female (thanks) and I fail to see how on Earth, I'm belittling you in my above post, by simply pointing out, that some of us appreciated the effort that went into Blind's post...those who don't, can just move on...I do, if there's things posted I'm not interested in

"this isn't an activist site. sorry m8. but if you really want to know and your computer illiterate (i'm just spelling illiterate), right click the link and open in a new tab."

notice i even apologized and said sorry m8 (friend) then i went on to offer help as to how to open a link easier for [i] others[/i] (italics)

"And, MATE, I am not computer illiterate, and I know where to use "you're" and "your.""

was picking on my english necessary. o.O i thought activism was to get people to help fight the fight, but it doesn't seem like that, and that's called bashing. who started to bash whom first? i was just stating a factual knowledge.

"Thanks blind SOME of us like to keep informed about what's up..The others SHOULD be able to pick and choose, don't know why they don't "

this is called belittling: minimize, belittle, denigrate, derogate
when you use caps online it means stress or shouting, personally i don't like to be shouted at. also, i do not know if you are really female in real life so to be correct i use the he/she, and him/her.

once again the link was put there because some people seem to forget what this forum is about. you talk about wanting information; well i put information, and because you didn't like it you had to [i] belittle [/i] me. it's ok i accept your apology :) not everyone rules by emotion, and some live by logic. i'm not narrow i'm logical; cold as it may seem. you seem to want to fight, no matter who it is. i feel badly for you, and i'll say a prayer for you. you're fighting the wrong person, as i am not the one you should be angry with. i've noticed that after reading many threads from activists that they are angry people. very angry people, and like you; you are angry, because of your son. i understand that, because i used to be angry too. it doesn't help and it poisons the soul. i wish you luck in everything you do.

Wow! This is why I don't come to this site much anymore!

here's the thing about activists: some/most start to get angry and hateful. they get so bad that they even start fights with the people they are fighting for. let's take erm...(do i want to mention his name), some guy that came here. at one point in time he might have been like other activists, as they just want to get things done right, or in their favor; which ever it maybe. then they start a cycle; a path you could say. they start getting paranoid (so to speak). they believe that they now need to fight to make a purpose, no matter whom they hurt. if you read in that link you'll know whom i'm referring to. it becomes their life, and it starts to poison them.

faeryedark said:
Christa, well said!!! I feel the same way. i really do hate to see this.
I don't always agree with Oneof them, and that's ok...different styles.
I don't always agree with others here either, and that's ok too.
i do feel that we need to be able to be active in someway, in fighting this. I don't want to be a doormat. I am seeing positive changes, and I don't think they would have happened if people would have held their tongues.
As was said we do need to get along. We are here for a common purpose. We won't have to worry about the "enemy" if we come apart from within.

notice the last paragraph. as was said we need to get along.

then you said in this thread:

Thanks blind SOME of us like to keep informed about what's up..The others SHOULD be able to pick and choose, don't know why they don't

which could be considered snide. you see the cycle, and the dangerous path you take. i feel badly for you so i'll be the bigger adult and say.... I apologize to you and to blind for stating the facts of this forum, and for helping out in showing people a faster way of opening links in browsers. Once again I am sorry.

ikr idliling that's why i apologized. :)