My husband is in jail awaiting his court date because he committed Statutory rape. By an authority figure. My 16 yr old was the victim. She never wanted me to report this. What? The man I trusted had sex with my daughter. Her 1st story was He just asked several times and she e eventually gave in. This is the story she gave police. He denied it for weeks until he finally confessed. Then the twisted truth comes out. My 16 yr old was skyping, Facebook, texting, calling this 19 yr old boy stationed in south Korea and he was listed I. Her phone as " master". We knew about him, she said a friend introduced them, because her boyfriend was stationed somewhere in the USA with him.And I confirmed that with her girlfriend. After my husband's confession to the detective He told me that when the acts were going down, this 19 yr old was on the phone listening. This prompted me to get on my daughter's FB And I read her messages. This boy knew about the " abuse" in fact he talked with my daughter about it, like it was turning him on. I discovered the boy and my daughter had a long distant " master/ submissive relationship and he prompted her to seduce my husband, and my husband is a textbook sex addict. So when my daughter asked him to watch her do things, with that boy on the phone listening, my husband gave in instead of sayin no nd calling me at work. I got admission from her about this. I got the military involved since the local police wouldn't touch that part and she is in therapy trying to figure out why she let that boy manipulate her. My husband was so wrong and he needs to pay for his actions. I just feel like he was a victim of himself. I asked her that if she had not been talking to that sick sick boy would she have done all this and inticed Her step dad.. She said no. So I have lost a husband, a stepson, I have some anger toward my daughter. I am fighting depression. My pressure went to stroke level for days until I decided something wasn't right and was hospitalized. I still am fighting to keep my daughter safe from twisted boys who may even be men on the internet. She has been caught sexting strange " boys" on FB. I have explained to her how easy it would be for them to find her using Google and maps. She thinks I'm trying to ruin her life. I'm trying to protect her the best I can to keep history from repeTing itself and trying to send her on the right path. Through all this she is maintaining a 3.50 Gpa. She's talented and artistic and can play 2 instruments. I am a mess in my head. I miss the man who is my soul mate. I hope I get past that. I respond to his letters from jail with words of hope for his life and anger because of his lack of self control. Angry because I have to take care of everything alone because he needed that rush sex addicts crave. Sometimes I feel like I don't have any hope left for myself. I m dead center of 'll of this. I cannot express how I really feel to my family because they will accuse me o betraying my daughter by loving him still. I took his son to see him in jail. My mother found out yelled at me and did not talk to me for 2 weeks. I took his son with his mother's permission because she won't. Maybe I'm still in denial after 6 mths. I confided my feelings to one of the ministers of my church. She did not judge me. Just offered advice of take it slow and keep in the word and pray. I pray for my girls and him. I pray that his jailhouse religion sticks when he is released. I pray my daughter's will use this in a positive way when they grow up. I know my husband is not a bad man. Evil entered my home and busted a family apart. I wouldn't talk to him if he had truly sexually abused her. I suppose I'm on here is because I feel like maybe I'm losing my mind and need confirmation I am or to connect with someone who has a similar story.please don't judge me for how I've handled this.I am a worse judge of myself then anyone ever could be beside God.