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the one i want isnt happy

nightfire
nightfire

well with all my problems including my separation thats absolutely killing me and in 4 months of it i have thought of killing my self many times, no income and no car, i found out that my medicaid will take care of any healthcare transport i need and that is great news and a little after that i found out that my medicaid will also take care of any therapist i wanna see that accepts it. i have my first therapy session set for the 1st, my step daughter is happy for me, a couple of friends are happy for me, but my wife doesnt seem to even care, i know some will say that is doesnt matter what she thinks, but it doesnt work that way, shes my wife of 9 years, i love her, shes my world and i care what she thinks.

Community LeaderWanderingVet
WanderingVet
You need to CLEARLY understand where she stands. Where ever that is, you need to accept it and go forward. You are in a vise .... being concerned about someone who MIGHT NOT care.

I HOPE you get things with her exactly the way you want them ... but if not, you have to move on. Can't stay where you are at this time .... it is a miserable place to be.
whatswrong19
whatswrong19
the best thing I can think to say here, is except what you can't control, cause you can't control how another person feels. It is what it is, and usually that isn't much, unless you're part of the 1 percent who's biggest problem is what their maid did or did not do.
nightfire
nightfire
shes not able to go with me since right now she lives in another state
sfeldk
sfeldk
Stay strong and do this for you! In due time if it is ment to be with you and your wife your marriage will prevail! 9 years is a long time and it is hard for anyone going through this. Head up and stay strong. Hugs
nightfire
nightfire
thank you so much
OlderCPer
OlderCPer
I honestly don't understand why you won't listen to her and what she's told you and leave her alone. she's told you that repeatedly. She moved to a different State to be away from you. Shes said she doesn't want to be with you because you cheated on her repeatedly

you seem to live in this dream world where nothing she says means anything. I hope you find a Therapist and they help you understand and accept what your wife has told you.
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