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Just gonna put it out there- i'm afraid of skinny people- really i am- seriously- hate crowds of them- feel they are always judging me- cant eat in restuarants without thinking- they are staring at me wondering what is that fatso eating- scared to meet my two ds sisters cause damn they aren't fat and put up beside them i'm gonna be super gigantic ! this really does put a lot of stress and anxiety on me- i won't wear anything but jeans cause dang it- i feel the need to hide my body and i know i'm obsessed with all this cause i've already lost 40 lbs and should be happy that i'm not gaining - also when a skinny guy ask me out i always decline cause i'm afraid i will break him- am i the only one here like this ? am i in this alone- i feel like the fugliest person on earth and heck maybe i am - but dang i'd like to know for sure....just had to vent about this and let it all out....
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Fat people scare me...cause they are so judgemental of skinny people.
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Fat people scare me...cause they are so judgemental of skinny people.
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many men have body image issues too. I was always criticized for being too skinny and been accused of being anorexic. Truthfully I was just naturally thin. But the comments hurt and made me feel not good enough. Some men prefer women with more curves. If the men ask you out they must see something they like. Why not accept the invitation? By the way, you probably won't break them.
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Yeah, s'true
RockNMetalChic
i don't judge anyone on outer appearances and to be honest that scares most people- sorry i scare ya lou- no need to run- very friendly person here- big hugs to you !
Sara017
someone asked me a couple days ago if i was bulimic
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Brandi is the most friendliest person you will ever meet
RockNMetalChic
yeah sweet some people assume things dont they and they really shouldn't- heck i'm guilty of assuming people are gonna judge me-hugs girlie !
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But ppl get an attitude about it...make assumptions about you, just the same...If you're ok with being fat, good for you..I just know i'm glad my mother lost weight as it would've killed her, the pressure on her heart etc.
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much love to you Rock, sorry, I know you don't hate me personally and I have to say that I don't notice what people look like, I notice their personalities as that is what is attractive or not about people. {{hugs}}
RockNMetalChic
i still say we should judge by the inside and not outer appearance and i do understand lou that people judge skinny or fat - i just needed to vent my emotional self image and esteem problem so i could get it out before i screamed... sorry there aren't more people who are non judgemental out there .... but i am one of them- i tell scott he is perfect all the time and he weighs 300 lbs- i still think he is most gorgeous man in the world! and i sincerely mean it too- he has a gorgeous personality.... :)
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don't get me wrong, not judging you :) x
RockNMetalChic
didn't think u were- hugs right back at ya :)
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:))
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I have the same issues i hate going out and public and feel like i am being judged i hate how society is and society makes it that way. And i feel when i look at myself i feel like i am 6000 pounds of gross fat!!!! So i am right there with you rock you are not alone.
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