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Belief is what drives religious fervour, fundamentalism, discord & hate. When a group says to another 'xyz is a sin' it's a belief set by religious groups and IMHO is in direct conflict with common humanity and peace loving people.
JW objection to blood transfusions is a 'belief'
Islamic apostasy is a belief
Anti-paganism in Christianity is a belief
Faith I admire, it drives Hope & Charity. The only true holy trinity of humanity (IMO)
Belief is there to be picked apart because we are told 'xyz is true' with no evidence to support it. Many people mix these two words up either because they don't really know the difference, or they want to control & convert people.
I just don't get it."
---- We could be entering a paradox here - it's because people DO have different beliefs, so inevitably, our beliefs about beliefs will be different..... here's another one of yours from the top ------
"I don't get why people can't just accept that everyone has different beliefs"...
WHO are these "people"???
You and me??? US AND THEM - you and me??? THEM AND US AND I??? All of us???
It's easier for you and I (being literal) to go 'because people' or 'they' or whatever, but you must remember that no belief is conclusive, and whole, not even for an extremist, one extremists way of looking at things could differ slighty by the structure or intensity of their belief.... And because of the nature of the beast, anything extreme acts according to itself, so telling someone to stop being that way is like saying - stop breathing - for some people it really is.
If I gave an opinion one day but changed my mind it doesn't mean that one day I was more solid in my convictions than another - 'why can't everybody be nice' scenario, the John Lennon Imagine Paradise; everyone is equal, everybody is free, but you realise that even within "GOOD" equality, there is still a lack of freedom, to be forced into a middle-ground freedom is actually, taking away the right to have your own beliefs....
Just because someone is a 'hardcore' aetheist, doesn't mean they are wrong, and what if they cause harm you say....?? Well, christianity, and conversion throughout the years caused harm, around the world, from Native Americans and beyond, as well as western soceities refusal to adapt to other cultures, it generally leads to overall hypocrisy - is this wrong in it's nature, or just unfair to the individual and that individuals' perspective???
If I am muslim and disagree with your beliefs, again, is this wrong or just how I was brought up??? You wouldn't have me telling you how to discipline your kids, even if I thought what you are doing is immoral, and it comes under the same line....
No matter how much you try to water shit down, you will always, always get conflict.... Even in communism there was conflict, even in bhuddism there has been conflict, (Tibet) in your own pub and neighbourhood there is conflict and conflict of beliefs.... In your own way you are basically making yourself out to be more 'righteous' for standing above the rest and looking down like an unammused god saying 'why can't you all just get on??'
If we are careful about what sort of standards we put in the 'core value' set that we hold everybody accountable for, versus the standards we hold ourselves to, then it should all work out pretty good.
For example, not running around killing people to get what you want is a pretty good candidate for the core value set. But never using profanity (even "damn") is better off in the personal standard set. (I'm talking about, say, here in DS land, and NOT about using foul language in an elementary school!)
my response to that (if i heard that comming from some islamic person) , is . . . what?! its her country LOL (well in theory that is). i support my Queen, as my highest power of state, and respect her.
Voodooguru makes a good point. two wrongs don't make a right, and personally myself i see that my country should not be part of this conflict in the Middle East seeing as it was not personally attacked in the matter.
however i do notice, that this has been going on for a long time. the way i look at it, is its just another chapter in a religious crusade.
personally, myself, i think the Muslims can live the way they so choose, but when they come to other countries they can drop the Sharia Law, and actually now in the country that i live in which is Multicultral, we have now added that, we do not accept "barbaric," cultural aspects (ie Honor Killing) and those wh do, continue its practice can (and most likely will be) charged, and punished (severly as the report said) under the martial law.
personally i think thats a step forward.
however i do not agree with Sharia Law, or the Christian Law, i do agree with the laws that this country (the one i live in) have been founded on.
While I will speak in terms that include God and my religious belief, like SBoom, I think it is not my words, but my life and actions that will sway another person or not.
I am here to help other people and to help myself against the darkness of depression. I judge no one by their religion or lack thereof.
Among the people I have known, one atheist lived the best Christian life I've ever seen. He was compassionate, generous and kind. However he was a Scientist w/ a capital S and did not believe anything that was not proven. My admiration for him was never diminished by his failure to see the greater truth that is God and his appreciation for me remained steadfast despite my 'superstitious belief' in God. It taught me early that being right or wrong about God did not dictate whether you were a good or a bad person.