so my wife(separated) and i texted just recently and long story short i told her i found out why for years id have inappropiate chats with women online and pictures and such, shed always ask me why did i do it, and id answer i dont know, the problem i feel is my (ED) or whatever you might call this, id always try to find ways to stimulate things, i always felt less than a man, even with my wife, we tried things to help, but i never link the things as being part of the same problem..... and as i opened up to my wife more than ever, about this, she said im using it as another fucking excuse even though i said it doesnt excuse anything i did, but i now see what my problem is and i need therapy for it.

i feel abandoned by her response