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I have a private conversation in my virtual word. My wife looks over my shoulder and asks me what its about. I tell her it's private.
I then get twenty questions. Was it this? Was it that? Our marriage is in trouble isn't it. I refuse to talk. It's private, dammit. It did concern her. A friend was asking if an action she was considering taking would hurt my wife. I said it would. IT WAS A F'ING PRIVATE QUESTION.
Now I feel horrible, she feels horrible, over something that probably won't even happen. I'm angry and upset and I can't stand this shit.
I then get twenty questions. Was it this? Was it that? Our marriage is in trouble isn't it. I refuse to talk. It's private, dammit. It did concern her. A friend was asking if an action she was considering taking would hurt my wife. I said it would. IT WAS A F'ING PRIVATE QUESTION.
Now I feel horrible, she feels horrible, over something that probably won't even happen. I'm angry and upset and I can't stand this shit.
Hugs
The internet certainly raises some new issues doesn't it?
I'm sorry you had a fight, they are never fun, but part of the package.
I guess I'm not getting a lot of sympathy from the women of SL, which says something in itself. My friend asked that this be private because my wife is so volatile. I tried to advise her as to what the consequences of a particular set of actions would be. It had to be kept quiet. The whole problem may never happen Sigh