We can wish things were different, but it is most important to see how things actually are. If it is not a good idea to stay over for any good reason, don't.

I wouldn't stay there.....it's just not right..........that's how I feel......

I'm sorry, but I have to agree with WV...I don't think you should go anywhere near your abuser. I wish you could hang out with your cousin another way, but this sounds dangerous for you :-( (((HUGS)))

if you dont feel right about it dont do it

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this whole akwardness is my fault, idk why i have such a big mouth...thank you guys for replying! xoxox

hay I got 1 tell ur mom 2 B ur protection....Burn the fuck'n prick....he can find his kind of lv sum where else...

You know that it is your right and your responsibility to report abusers- even if that means simply telling someone about it. That is not something that you should ever feel guilty about. Telling is the right thing to do....always. Best of luck, and as stated already....sounds like sleeping at someones home that abused you in any way (verbally- physically- sexually) is a very bad idea. Please have a great and safe 4th of July weekend. [ big hugs ]

Hun you didn't cause anything......no one should ever hurt you ...ever!

Hun I went the other day looking 4 a slim Jim...not the beefy kind of thing...the thing U want when U lock ur self out of a car....

anywhoo.... I went up to this mechanic's house...and he was in JAIL...well i did 'nt ask but was told...

Ya know...suffice it to say she is going on that "SHE" .....I'm gona tell U this ...she didn't put those coon eyes on her body....

AND, just 4er just cause that fuck should rott in jail cuz that POS owes me one fucking beer on a transmission and a 4wheel drive unit....fucking cunt abuser....POSPRICK....

I traded him a transmission with a 4 wheel drive 4 2 beers and only got 1 fucking beer....fucking punk...then he punches his wife.....fucking pricks....

I don't know about "smart dsers", but I have a heart for people. My heart says you are the one who was wronged, and things cannot ever be as they were. You did the most difficult thing a young woman in your situation can do: You stood for the truth. To that, I say Honor to the Brave! And please, do not sleep over.

Your mom says you have to sleep over? Maybe you should talk to her about this... maybe the cousin you want to hang out with can come spend the night at your house instead?

wait a minute am i understanding this correctly your mom says you have to spend the night if you want to go and she know he has abused you? wow!!!! trying not to be to extreme here, but is your mother fuckin crazy? or does she just not give a shit about you? Honey i am sorry but do you really think you should go over there.......... you know the answer to this!!!!!!!!! WOW

my mom says it was not sexual abuse, just touching, things like this always happen between kids (i was 9 he was 15, 12, he was 18

and last time i checked that is an adult...dont tell the social worker he did that, dont say he was 18, if he goes to jail ur aunt nd grandma will kill themselve, just get over it, ok it happened a long time ago, why do u need a therapist, well cuz no in this fam is helping me...blah blah blah same fight all the time when i try to tlk...look at ur self why wud u hurt urself...sometime i feel soo bad about myself and i wish i could be in a box

oo yea and i consider everyone whose nice to me, and gives me advise a smart DS'er :) u guys are great!!