Outlast them. Until they grow up. Just survive this.

Sorry your dealing with a crap family that just really sucks but don't let them get you down your obviously working you butt off if they are to blind to see that then they have a problem not you. Just know that your not alone I'm not close to my family either I tried for a long time to make them proud of me I just wanted them to love me like I thought family was suppose to but they didn't I'm so different from them that they just don't have time for me my father did he's the only one but since he died the rest don't even try to be polite they just seem hateful to me. I finally realized that I was wasting my time on them now I make myself happy and if they don't like me or how I live it's their problem. I'm married now and I have friends that care and that's my family now. We can't help which family we are born into but we can make a new one with people who know what family means blood or not.

When they say you are a lazy piece of shit, what they mean is they are lazy pieces of shit and are jealous of your accomplishments. They want to hold you down to their level because that makes them feel better about themselves. Tell them to go fuck themselves. If you still live with them, move. I don't care if you have to live with seven roommates to do it just move. There is no hope for people like that. People like that who speak to their children like that are scum and not worth anymore of your time or energy.

Always always ALWAYS remember what they are saying is their own opinion. YOU know what they are saying is not true, you know what your doing is what you want and you are trying your hardest. I'm sorry your parents are being cruel ( they probably think they are helping by pushing you extra hard) but dont ever forget, so long as your happy with what your doing and what you want your end goal to be, everyone else can go F#^% themselves. Its your life not theirs so they best be learning to either be supportive or to shut the hell up.

Thank you guys! You guys have helped a lot

I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm having family issues too. It can be hard.

Three jobs, that's wonderful and tremendously impressive. I think the secret is not finally getting your parent's approval but not needing it. You realize you are working hard, they are dysfunctional for reasons they may not be able to control, you are pleasant to them, but do not need to have them approve each thing you do.

don't give up get some support

I remember when I was teaching how much it hurt to see the helicopter parents hurt their kids but putting impossible demands on you , I am sure you are very gifted kind sensitive and loving and just have not found your niche, I support you even though I don't know you and let u know as someone who fought against bullying, please don't bully yourself because of this,, slow down,, u are not a piece of shit a special amazing Chrysalis and you are entitled to find your own happiness , karma and life and spirit forces want you to fly into your own

As a mother I feel so angry with your parents, they should support you, encourage not put you down, whats wrong with them? They have no idea how blessed they are, so many parents here on DS with drug addicted kids, so sorry they treat you in this terrible way, try to forgive them and live your life, they are not worth listening too.
Get your college degree, find a good job and make a success of your life, my daughter has a successful job, she did lots of bad things , got into debts, bad company but I was always there for her even paid her debts, but she made it , she apologised now that she is a Mom herself and we are close.
How can your parents expect any respect and love when they are insulting you.
Be the best you can be, be strong and show them how good you are, love**

I'm so sorry to hear this. But I understand. I've always been the black sheep in my family and always hurt them in some way. Just learn how the be your own best friend and make yourself happy