Under ethics, if she is reported, the burden of proof is in her to defend her actions, of a personal or other relationship develops before a 2 year (at least, or more) cessation of therapy.with a client. Longer of it would still affect the client.
This could cost her license. It is her job as therapist to build trust and a bond for healing, as you describe.. Job....don't confuse the two, or she may step away to preserve a non conflict of interest and well being of client. The report may come from her colleagues, they want to protect, and are required to report conflicts of this nature.

Ethical Principles of Psychologists and Code of Conduct
Including 2010 and 2016 Amendments.

http://www.apa.org/ethics/code/index.aspx

"10.06 Sexual Intimacies with Relatives or Significant Others of Current Therapy Clients/Patients
Psychologists do not engage in sexual intimacies with individuals they know to be close relatives, guardians, or significant others of current clients/patients. Psychologists do not terminate therapy to circumvent this standard.

10.07 Therapy with Former Sexual Partners
Psychologists do not accept as therapy clients/patients persons with whom they have engaged in sexual intimacies.

10.08 Sexual Intimacies with Former Therapy Clients/Patients
(a) Psychologists do not engage in sexual intimacies with former clients/patients for at least two years after cessation or termination of therapy.

(b) Psychologists do not engage in sexual intimacies with former clients/patients even after a two-year interval except in the most unusual circumstances. Psychologists who engage in such activity after the two years following cessation or termination of therapy and of having no sexual contact with the former client/patient bear the burden of demonstrating that there has been no exploitation, in light of all relevant factors, including (1) the amount of time that has passed since therapy terminated; (2) the nature, duration, and intensity of the therapy; (3) the circumstances of termination; (4) the client's/patient's personal history; (5) the client's/patient's current mental status; (6) the likelihood of adverse impact on the client/patient; and (7) any statements or actions made by the therapist during the course of therapy suggesting or inviting the possibility of a posttermination sexual or romantic relationship with the client/patient. (See also Standard 3.05, Multiple Relationships.)"

well that just blows a hole in things for me a tad bit, however, coffee is not sexual or romantic lol, not saying id even get coffee that is

Coffee outside of a scheduled appointment would be a violation. I took medical law and ethics as part of the classes I need for Art Therapy with Families, individuals and children. I aced the class. There has to be those boundaries to be objective.
If you chose her partly on looks, you may have done yourself a disservice depending on what your therapy plan is and what you want out of it.

Dang, Night fire, your screwed, and not the way you wanted to be.

Be content to be your therapist.

Maybe she has a sister???

We told you when you first made this decision how ridiculous it was, what the hell does it take for you to listen???? Do you listen to anyone ever???

There is no way, shape or form, no possibility in any scenario that your Therapist would have anything to do with you on a Personal level. She's a Professional, the only reason she spends time with you each week is because she's working for you performing a service, that's it.

She is not allowed by her Code of Ethics to have anything to do with you on a Non-Professional level.

I'm really curious how your wife feels about your newest plan to date your Therapist???

well if its not meant to be then its not meant to be i suppose, its always my luck, im not there for a date anyways and the therapy is going well

Therapy from a good looking therapist is one thing ... but therapy and ONLY therapy is all you are going to get, ... TRUST ME.

I'm glad the therapy is going well, but if you are bipolar, medication is a must. If you are not on any, .. you are swimming upstream. If you ARE, ... it may need to be adjusted.

You need to realize your PRIORITIES ... and NOT complicate things by failing to assign the proper roles involved. You are working against yourself.

im on meds and take them as i should, if i didnt then i can say for sure with how bad my depression is id be dead in a week, therapy is going well, i just shot my self in the foot by picking someone i liked and those feelings im afraid will always be there unless i meet someone and even then they may not change

This is another example of your pattern of having inappropriate relationships with women.

It would be interesting to see how therapy would progress if you were to be honest with your therapist about your thinking process when selecting her as a therapist and also to tell her that you are curious about the possibility of a non-professional relationship with her. Perhaps this is the key to the entirety of your interpersonal relationship problems with women.

maybe, however, seeing her profile online when i selected her, or seeing her at a bar or supermarket i would still find her intriguing, i didnt go into this expecting that i would like her so much that im interested in getting to know her, but now im in this situation, a situation that i really like this woman, but because of her career will probably be impossible to actually happen

i didnt say, oooo look at her, ill pick her and get to know her and in time date her lol i do wish now i had picked one i didnt like

So you selected her as a therapist because you "find her intriguing".

But you say you didn't "go into this expecting that I would like her so much that I'm interested in getting to know her".

The definition of "intrigue" is to "arouse the curiosity or interest of; fascinate."

So you were fascinated by her online profile which prompted you to enter into a professional relationship with her without any intent to further satisfy your curiosity or interest in her?

If you can be rigorously honest with yourself, was your willingness to enter into a professional relationship with your therapist because you hoped it would morph into a personal relationship?

You admit you selected her as a therapist based in part on your physical attraction to her and now that your action has placed you in a quandary, you act surprised that your actions have put you in your current situation.

I apologize if my questions or observations seem hostile or make you uncomfortable, but in the words of Frank A. Clark, "We find comfort among those who agree with us - growth among those who don't."

Do you want growth and healing or comfort and commiseration?

Also, I agree that this may not have been conscious decision on your part to select an attractive therapist. But that is the purpose of therapy - to uncover the unconscious sources of our destructive behavior and learn healthy behavioral alternatives.

Jeezy Weezy just get another therapist -okay bye

my wording might be off, i chose a therapist based on my insurance first, because i cant pay for it at all, that narrowed things down a good bit on the site, then i selected a woman over a man because i feel more comfortable talking to women, so that narrowed it down even more, then distance and qualification, after that i had a couple handfull i could choose and i just so happened to be an idiot and picked the one i liked most liked based on their picture.

i never went in thinking i could turn it into more, my goal for therapy is to fix whats messed up if possible in me, help me find ways to cope