How long have you been there? My mom was in a nursing home. SHe was pretty much out of it, but others seemed to be reaching out for somebody to talk to.

I'd suggest that you talk to the nurses, they know who is friendly, etc.

Gentle hugs

I really hope they are good to you there and the nurses can help you find friendships. We are always here for you, please don't forget that. We love you sweety. Hugs Gramybear

What about the staffs? Talk to them.

I had a aunt who recently passed away. On my last visit with her she shared with me how she coped living in a nursing home. She told me she was devastated when she first went there but after awhile she made a point of befriending every new person who came in the home because they were likely going through the same type of devastation. It gave her a sense of purpose. I am not in a nursing home but I have friends 30 years older than me, Dont let age be a barrier. I know you are facing a huge adjustment and my prayers are with you and yes we are here for you also, God bless.

Sorry to hear about your stroke. Glad you're recovering.

Tell whoever checks on you there, that you want someone to talk to.
Write again - want to hear how you're doing.

Hello catango2 i am a retired nurse and worked my entire life in a nursing home.I know how depressing they can become and i know your frightenend.When a staff member comes in request that you want to see a clergy,or ask to put a request in to see your social worker asap.i hope you wont be in there long keep positive work hard in physical therapy so you can getout of there.keep us posted i will check on you regular.

If it helps, people from the group are here and wish you luck and a speedy recovery.

I'm sorry. Maybe they could transfer you to a different wing? Either way, prayers for a speedy and full recovery.

Come here to DS and talk to us. We are here for you and you can post any time day or night. Some of the other people there might be too depressed to want to socialize----that's my guess any way. Wishing you a speedy recovery.

Hi nexus, I forget your first name, but I am glad to see you back. I am sorry about your stroke, but so happy you are with us. I wish you lived nearby so I could visit.

Do they have games (like bingo) that you get involved in? Don't feel bad for feeling younger. I bet many of the older people there would love your company.

Maybe talk to the staff, too, as others suggested. I was in the hospital once and was the youngest person there, too. My nurses were very good with me. One would joke how he had to get me out of there because I was the only young person there. But a lot of older people just want someone to listen and will appreciate your presence.