I understand this seems when I get down every one runs and hides I wish i could say something to make you feel better but I do know where you are coming from Hugs

i guess i dont get any new friends then. =(

yeah. but its not even when i get down. because honestly, i dont get down very often anymore. only occasionally. but everyone just seems to be ignoring me ALL the time. down or not. i dont get it. its like i just lost a bunch of friends.

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I get that
are you at a transition point in your life ?

I'd check with those friends you're concerned about individually. My guess is it's probably not personal, we're just all dealing with our own issues here on DS so it may be they're caught up in their own stuff and don't realize you're feeling this way. ((hugs))

what do you mean "transition point"?
and no, its not like theyre not okay or anything. i DO talk to them occasionally, and most of the time, things are going great in their life. but just in middles of conversations, they'll stop replying. to IM's, texts, whatever.
and..you're probably thinking "well maybe they think youre annoying at the moment or something". well, you might not have thought that, but i have. and its not that..99% of the time =P
i just dont understand why all of a sudden i'm alone again.

*biz-ump* =]

Maybe your DS friends are just dealing with issues in their life right now. Have you thought about just sending a hug to them stating that you miss them and are looking forward to talking to them again? sometimes reaching out is all it takes.

actually, pixie, i have. and i rarely get replies back. or if i do, its a one time thing. i mean, i sound really concited (sp) right now. because it sounds like (even to me) "hey, look at me. i have problems and no one else does". but honestly ,its not like that. i just miss good old conversations about whats happening in everyones lives. i just miss my friends.

You dont sound conceited at all punkee. I understand how you could miss the conversations with your friends. I hope that one or all of your friends see this thread and realize that you miss the talks. Are any of them online now? I certainly hope so. I have to applaud you for putting all of this out here and speaking from the heart. it is tough for some people to do. Hugs to you hon.

i dont know if any of them are online right now or not. i'd actually feel kinda embarrassed if any of them were.. >_<

u know...sometimes it FEELS more like that's the case...but this happens. it's as if we all get preoccupied with our own "stuff" at the same time..and everyone feels left out.

i'm sure your friends care. :) xoxo

oh, i have no doubt that they care.. i just..idk. lol
i just fricken miss them.
and i hate it when i feel alonnnnnne.

Sorry you're feeling so alone. Sometimes when we feel this way, others simply are not aware. It is hard to call out to them and say .. HEY >>> I NEED A HUG >>> DARN IT!!!

It's in these low moments that we need to say just that, being careful to not cry "wolf" too often .. lolll (trying to interject a little humor too) ...

Maybe you and I could figure out how to bottle the darned hugs up and store them ... so we could feel them when we need them and are feeling alone.

Take care, Punkee ... and know I'd give you a HUGGG any time. Hope just knowing I care helps a little ...

Thanks for your post ... and your honesty!

((BIG BEEARRRR HUGGGG!!!)) and we'd watch a movie, eat popcorn and talk!

Ranae