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I get kicked out from the fiances after 7 years.. I crash my truck and total it.. I go to the ex's to get some of my things and he treats me like I am a piece of trash. Told me he wont let me borrow his trailer to move out and will not help. Told me to load stuff up in the back or my sons truck and take many trips. I have a full bedroom set, intertainment center, big tv, surround sound etc etc.. along with all my decorations that are on his walls and my Harley and Boat. I have no where at this to put all these things.
He told me I was just a worthless drunk and that I should get all my *real* friends at the bar to move me.
Then my son and I went to dinner and when we got back home he went to let his dog Rusty in from the backyard and Rusty is no where to be found. He is very old, blind and deaf. We scoured the neighbor hood a long with some neighbors but could not find him.. Dakota is devastated and sat up until 5am this morning crying his eyes out.. He thinks some one cruelly came in the back yard and took Rusty to destroy him..I dont know why anyone would do that... I am at the end of my rope... but I will not drink.. sorry for the rant..... I feel so helpless
He told me I was just a worthless drunk and that I should get all my *real* friends at the bar to move me.
Then my son and I went to dinner and when we got back home he went to let his dog Rusty in from the backyard and Rusty is no where to be found. He is very old, blind and deaf. We scoured the neighbor hood a long with some neighbors but could not find him.. Dakota is devastated and sat up until 5am this morning crying his eyes out.. He thinks some one cruelly came in the back yard and took Rusty to destroy him..I dont know why anyone would do that... I am at the end of my rope... but I will not drink.. sorry for the rant..... I feel so helpless
You're in my thoughts. I hope it works out soon.
((hugs)) Patricia
I really hope you find your sons dog soon and I'm so chuffed for you that you are still sober.......go you sexy lady x
Hope rusty turns up safe and well.. ((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))
Proud of you.....staying sober. Good things will come your way. Sorry ex is acting so hurtful to you.
Much love to you.....(((((((((hugs)))))))))))
anyway, peace. sending you good vibes.
As far as your son's dog, how devastating. I totally can relate how much one can love a dog as they never hurt us. I just hope you can find Rusty and your son is reunited with him again. I would be worried sick over him too. So I get why your son is devastated. Many of your friends here care and want the best for you, your son and family..Yes struggles are being placed at your doorstep at this moment but it will quiet again..Take care of yourself and your son...Will keep you all in my thoughts and Rusty as well...Come home Rusty, you are loved and needed...
Have you got anyone you can really turn to for complete support?
Your son needs you, you also have to deal with all the unknown of what has happened to rusty, that alone would take me to breaking point.
are you staying with your son? You are both going to need each other.
Your ex wouldn't have taken the dog as some sort of sick hate would he?
As for your ex, he is trying to hurt you. He's not much of a man to do that.
You must be feeling that the bottom of your world has dropped out.
You will get through this, somehow. You have something so amazing inside you, you are loved so much here.
Let the ex know you are worth more than him and take your time to heal.
Love and prayers
GOOD. Drinking will not get you moved out OR find the dog. A U-Haul will get you moved out .. and a search MIGHT find the dog. Concentrate on those two solutions.
Drinking .... that will ONLY get you drunk .. which brings on more problems. Who needs more problems?
God bless Rusty on his journey....so sad..
As for your son's dog...well, that makes me sick to think anyone would do that to a dog...is your ex capable of such a thing? I hope the dog is fond soon, and in good condition. So sad. Damn, wish I lived closer, I'd be there to help somehow. All I can do is offer you hugs and love and understanding, and you've got it, anytime. xxx