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As most of you have seen lately here at DS, many of our beloved friends and associates are *on the outs* with each other which really tears me apart as it does others.
I have noticed that I do not recieve as many hugs as I use to here or as many comments and was wondering something.. First off, I am not looking for attention so please keep those comments to yourself, or not, cause it really doesnt matter. Secondly, I have a hard time putting into words how I really feel so please bare with me. Now..
Do the rest of you feel torn because you are friends with people on both side of the fence? Do you feel like you are leaning to one side if you feel worse for one of them? Do you feel like you are caught in the middle because you still have the *offensive* person on your friends list? Are you just tottaly torn up because of all the stuff that has gone on by people that you genuinely care about?
Am I less of a friend to any of you here that are involved because I am torn? I just really need to know..I am not trying to *stir the pot*... I just really need to know..
And also............... does my farting and my smelly fur offend any of you? Just wondering.. I ruv you guys rong time.. I love you fucktards more then you know.. thebeast
I have noticed that I do not recieve as many hugs as I use to here or as many comments and was wondering something.. First off, I am not looking for attention so please keep those comments to yourself, or not, cause it really doesnt matter. Secondly, I have a hard time putting into words how I really feel so please bare with me. Now..
Do the rest of you feel torn because you are friends with people on both side of the fence? Do you feel like you are leaning to one side if you feel worse for one of them? Do you feel like you are caught in the middle because you still have the *offensive* person on your friends list? Are you just tottaly torn up because of all the stuff that has gone on by people that you genuinely care about?
Am I less of a friend to any of you here that are involved because I am torn? I just really need to know..I am not trying to *stir the pot*... I just really need to know..
And also............... does my farting and my smelly fur offend any of you? Just wondering.. I ruv you guys rong time.. I love you fucktards more then you know.. thebeast
and i dont take sides with anyone. i make up my own mind about ppl
but ur right---u stink. incontinence and fur suit do not mix
That is my story and Im sticking to it.... Go chew on some of yer toenails....
Yes, I have two beautiful, supportive and amazing friends who don't see eye to eye, and it hurts that I can't unite them. However, I know I can be a friend to both, and I hope I am. Amazing as you are, you can't be a peace-keeper my lovely friend.
I have such admiration for you Y'Vonne. I know I probly spelt that wrong dammit. You always make me smile, you always make me feel loved and supported. i know that if you're on, and Im in need, you'll be there.
Lots of us oldies are retreating over recent drama. I am a slefish hugger, and I rarely hug. That's my bad. I honestly forget to do it!! You are a beloved senior here, believe that, and so MUCH loved. I respect and revere you as an older sister I never had.
Another spray of Furbreeze wouldn't go amiss though, particularly in view of your incontinecne.........
Yes, I am missing a lot of the *oldsters* here... I am just afraid that all this animosity is going to send others over the edge and that we will never see them again..... I realize these are *just* internet friends, but they still mean a lot to me..
And Juice you are an outstanding friend... dont ever forget that.. I love you hon..
and please dont mix up my words.. I didnt say you were big asses.. roflmao....
personally, i have and will remove ppl over certain associations in a bid to protect myself since i was hurt by that in the past. (also there is only one person that will usually inspire those removals and i hope she is not here for now) but as i am lost on the recent drama, unless it is the same thing that was going on weeks ago, i have no involvement in this and have no reason to hug you less.
Am I torn because I have friends on both sides of the fence? Absolutely, and who wouldnt?
Do I feel like I'm leaning to one side if I'm feeling worse for one of them? Yes, so I try not to UNLESS I think one is not good for the entire depression community.
Do I feel like I am caught in the middle because I have the "offensive person on my friends list?" I feel that who is on one's friend's list is their personal business and should not have to be an issue with anyone - ever. I only unfriended one person ever.. and it took me a while to do so.. again, it was nobody's business.
Am I torn up because of all the stuff that has gone on by people that I genuinely care about? Absolutely.. I think it's normal to be.
I don't think you are a good friend anyway so how much less of a friend could you possibly be? LMAO - sorry you left yourself wide open for that smartass answer!
No-not less of a friend.. but it's extremely hard when people are hurt, and feel they have been wronged... they want support behind them. It is only natural for them to feel that way. I understand how you are, beastie.. you stay out of political situations as a rule.. I don't judge you for it.
I am sorry if you are having difficulty with anything that has been happening here. I have no idea what has been going on.. I've been away alot this past week or so.