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My brother Calie Z goes in for his big heart operation on Monday.. He only has about a 50/50 chance of even coming home after this time... Very dangerous operation with no guarantees and will not fix the damage already done but will give him a little longer to live.. He doesnt think he is going to pull through and wont let any of us, including my mother or his children come to the hospital to wait...
What would you do???? Please send all the positive thoughts, prayers or mojo for him.. He has two new grandchildren due in the next couple of months.. If anyone deserves to live it would be him... I would gladly go in his place... Thank you... Y'Vonne
What would you do???? Please send all the positive thoughts, prayers or mojo for him.. He has two new grandchildren due in the next couple of months.. If anyone deserves to live it would be him... I would gladly go in his place... Thank you... Y'Vonne
I'd be at the hospital waiting.
visiting the chapel and praying for all karma great and small to be with him as he tries to press on for a lil while longer.
((Hugz)) Yvonne, Thinking of you and praying all goes well for a lil while longer.
However you know him and his faimly better than me maybe he just wants to know someone care enough to be there. THis is hard one.
I know this is hard for every one I will be pray for all of you.
I would spend the weekend with him. I'd make him get drunk and get lap dances. I'd kick his ass one more time just in case. I'd try to make him laugh. I would cry my heart out. I would pray. I would surround him and his doctors in my mind with white light. I would expect a miracle. I would demand he pull through. I would tell him he is not allowed to die without permission.
Then, I would put his life in God's Hands, where it belongs.
peace to your heart my friend .........
It's gonna be a full moon. All good things happen under a full moon.
Your right get him drunk and a lap dance ought to put some life back in him... lol... But on a serious note, he is very scared.... I will be seeing him on the weekend... My sister is coming up from Vegas tonight to visit... Im sure he thinks we all know he is going to pass... But I have high hopes for him...
But then they say, the good die young.... I guess I will not know.. I will keep you updated Monday.. luv you guys..
Oh, religious? In that state? So like how many wives Does he Have??? Poor dude, no wonder his heart's acting up ....
For real, Friend, we're with ya and we're sending all the good stuff .... and will be all day Monday.
Love you Beastie xoxo
Gaye
My step-father was given a 50/50 chance to live and lived for some time after his first heart attack.
I would likely be honest with the request for "no support" with waiting during the operation with a "I can't do that. I will be there."
I think you should be there so you and Sharon can help each other through this.
She will need you and you will need her.
I'm more worried about you seeing him this weekend. What will that be like? I can't imagine how that would feel thinking it may be the last time you might see him.
I believe in the power of prayer and positive thoughts. I really do.