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Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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meandthebeast 04/05/2009

I havent been on for ever it seems but it feels nice to be here.
I need to just warn you all about the friends you let on your friends list. I usually accept most everyone and that has obviously been very stupid on my part.

Someone on my friends list has been reporting back to my soon to ex fiance, everything that I write in my journals and then some. Even printing off copies. He has warned me about mentioning his name to any of my fucking disturbed friends on DS.

I will make a new journal here shortly for anyone who cares to read it. My relationship with this man is over. Its hard and Im crying, but enough is is really enough. I will try to stay strong. Ive been through worse and you know what? *Sometimes goodbye is a second chance*... I love you my truly disturbed friends.. roflmao..
Hugs and love from the beast

deleted_user 04/05/2009

Oh no, Yvonne. Do you know which friend it was? It's so hard being trusting when people do such things. If you're not sure who it was then there can't be such a huge list of names who know how to contact him. Why would they even do that anyway? Did they think they were helping? :/

deleted_user 04/05/2009

That is pretty bad news. I hate the problems with ex's. I have one I left three years ago and he is STILL stalking me. What makes them think that they can order us about, tell us what to do? Jerks. I am sorry that you are in tears over this, but it is probably the very best thing you can do for YOU. Leave him behind and move on to much better things in life. You deserve it!

Testycatlady 04/05/2009

Hun... What that person did was wrong, and I believe against DS privacy policy... I think it is anyway. Especially if it was marked private... I sure it is against good ethics at least. I'm sorry it happened to you. Someone did it to me a while back and it sucks big time...

HUGS

deleted_user 04/05/2009

back stabbing friends, who needs them. Sorry you were betrayed Mean. Do you know who the guity part is?

deleted_user 04/05/2009

Y'Vonne i am so sorry that someone has done this to you and i hope you do know who it is. i love you dearly my friend and i am here for you always.i have missed you alot but i haven't been on here much either.i am here if you need me.

deleted_user 04/05/2009

I sent you a PM hon.....that is absolutely disgusting that someone would betray you in that manner. I'm so sorry this happened.

{{{{{{hugs}}}}}} & love

mystie 04/05/2009

That is truly horrible that someone would do that.
I can only imagine the pain and betrayal you feel.

When my X and I split up the first time I found out he had printed off messages I sent him privately and he sent them to my family. I was appalled because they were so private. I felt very betrayed by him.

I'm so sorry someone has betrayed your trust.

deleted_user 04/05/2009

sorry this happened to you......that dumb bitch...copy that lady,lol.........hugs to you mean.....there are just people out there that doesnt understand us disturbed people.......must suck to be in the minority......

Juice 04/05/2009

Hang on a minute. I am a little addled right now, but are you saying some bitch has been playing you up against him? Seriously? You mean it's over? Shit Beasty! If I find out who it is I will hunt them down. I am so sorry this happened to you my friend. What a fucking disgrace. Hey, dick-head, if you're reading this - you are an gold-plated asshole!

deleted_user 04/05/2009

omg! that is so horrible! first that things have gotten to that point with him. i am sooo sorry to hear that. tight tight hugs!

also, as you may remember someone has done that to me before....not sent them to ppl but posted it on the main board. i am so sorry some asshole here betrayed you like that. that is disgusting and is absolutely wrong under all circumstances. if you know who it is, just remind them that karma is a fucking bitch and that their betrayal will come back to them eventually. again....tight tight hugs! i am sooo sorry you are hurting like this at all.

deleted_user 04/05/2009

I love your disturbed arse too hon.lol. This is sad that someone you trusted would go as far as side with your ex and give him info from your journal. Pathetic really. I certainly hope that this person is smoked out and you know who not to trust in the future. Y..keep thinking about this being a second chance for you. Mr. Right is out there....he just hasnt found you yet. Take care my friend and if you need me...I am here for you. hugs.

deleted_user 04/05/2009

Who would do that....? what type of person does that ? what do they get out of it?
Sorry you have had this done to you Meandthebeast.....awful,just horrible...I hate people who do things like that....hugs to you x

BeckyK 04/05/2009

Oh honey, I am so sorry someone has done this to you!

You are right though, saying goodbye is a second chance.

I have had to do that with my stbx husband. NOT easy, my heart goes out to you.

deleted_user 04/05/2009

Oh God....that is just SICK beastie babes, Im SO sorry. It is like something my ex Arse would have done too. Maybe saying goodbye to your fiance now, is a chance for you to give yourself some time to do what YOU need for YOU.

I dont tend to accept any friends requests, unless I have seen them around the boards and have engaged in a thread or 2 with them. This might be a lesson to a few of us....BE VERY CAREFUL, who you add onto your friends list.

Take care Beastie.
xx

deleted_user 04/05/2009

Hug, sweetie, your warning about this person is appalling and dismaying---how could anyone gain access like that? Obviously they are twisted beyond reason.

Many hugs and you have GREAT friends here, who all love you very much!!! This person will be outed, they always are...

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