oh dear.

Well maybe it's time to bum across America and find yourself. Do you have any skills you can use to earn money? Otherwise there must be seasonal work out there. I know here in New Zealand there is seasonal work somewhere all the time, and all the workers follow it. As the applies die, the kiwifruit come on. As the kiwifruit die, the onions come on. ... like that.

Look on the WWOOFFer site (I think that's it. People who travel working on organic farms. Something that will ground you, bring you to the earth, teach you the calm and acceptance of the seasons. Being in the physical world and doing physical work is incredibly healing, it's amazing. Everyone who has suffered should do it because it helps you find your real self.

That sucks. How can parents do this to adult children?
Hope you find place of your own soon

I do not know why a parent would do that in the first place he also did that at 21 saying it would help me grow... it did help me grow but into a hardcore alcoholic yes! good work he began mentioning a few days after about sending me back. Giving me a place to stay for a few months and ya there I would go, back to the drinking yup great idea dad!!

Hope you find help,
Sorry to hear, call 211 and go from there.

211 sucks!!!

Your dad's not responsible for your drinking mate. You are. Until he puts a gun to your head and holds a bottle in front of you saying 'drink or I shoot', your drinking is your own responsibility.

:p That's the truth mate. That's the truth.

The most important detail is: how old are you?

Age is an irrelevant notion used to assert ones knowledge about a situation they know nothing about. You could be a 40 yr old virgin, and act like you haave been there done it before. Age does not determine any specific type of learning or abilities that should have been learned. Age is just how closer you are to dying, and if the opportunities were missed because of lack of proper encouragement