What I have come to find out, is that no one owes me anything. And thats ok, because it is all what I make of my life within the ups and downs it gives me. I understand there are downs, and knowing that it just happens, And the dsy will pass, the week, and other things come into its place. Grab the good, don't read so much into what you percieve to be bad. Give as you can with no expectations back. It has taken me two years to become socially part of a meetup group after I broke up with the love of my life. But I kept at it week after month.

Hello Helpless. I agree with LivLife's attitude that life sometimes deals us a bum hand and we have to do the best we can with what we get. The story is about YOU and how best YOU can find answers to your misgivings, not what others think about you. Let them think what they like, just so long as you get on with your own healing the best way you can. Maybe there are a few pearls of wisdom in what other people say, so take what makes sense to you and bin the rest. The world owes you nothing, but you owe yourself everything.

Good luck, many blessings and take care.

In my opinion, this sounds like an advert - someone touting for business perhaps? Certainly shameful to prey on the vulnerable. :-(((

I can feel your frustration with life; however, you can help yourself perhaps getting counseling by a mental-health professional and couple that with exercise that releases chemicals that can lift your mood, increase your energy. Also please don’t overlook your spiritual needs: Pour out your heart to God in prayer…it can help calm you. Philippians 4:6,7

@LisaCater1997
Strange question to ask, but I do

Hi everyone thank you for taking the time out of you’lls busy day and responding much love ❤️

Hi Helpless,
You are very important! You are very valuable! God loves you very much!
I have dealt with depression before too and feeling useless, lonely, down and out and like I do not belong...been there! It really never goes away, you just have to learn how to choose how to live life each and everyday. Sometimes, family and friends are not the right people to step in and help you. Sometimes we just need to step out and get involved and help others in need. Such as; serving at the Rescue Mission, Boys and Girls Club, helping trouble youth and families, volunteer at the local hospital talking to the elderly and playing with the children, listening to their hurts... World Vision, Red Cross, a local church group.
I found when I start helping and serving and keeping busy with other people my depression, loneliness, burdens and all other problems seem to slowly disappear and before I know it, I start to enjoy what I am doing! Exercising is a form of keeping your mental health strong and healthy too. I also found god and He helps me to overcome thoughts of depression and loneliness... Pray and pray and keep praying! Keep in the Word of God as well.
I am going to pray for you!

@JAAKK
Thank you for those encouraging words

Don't let what others do or don't do, define you. You have purpose and worth.
For years, as a biker, I was told I would never be anything, never have anything and never amount to anything. For years I believed that and I had a raging storm in me. Now, I know better and have been a Christian and a preacher now for many, many years.

@OLDBIKER
Thank you for the uplifting!!

This is good:

https://www.evelynlim.com/how-to-love-yourself-in-17-ways/