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evanslac
evanslac

I feel so alone all the time especially tonight I got into an argument with my husband because i was feeling as though I was completely invisible to him today. is seemed as though the only feelings he cares about was out female friends I'm not sure if it's just me being jealous or what but I say alone in my bedroom while he was out making sure she was feeling ok. he usually spoils me on Valentine's day with breakfast and cards and today it was as if I wasn't even there. I just cried . 

djchurn
djchurn
Sorry for your experience. We all change and sometimes the expectation of what things were is greater than what things have become. Accept change and perhaps discuss your observations.
Debbalina
Debbalina
Poor timing. Being left alone on the most supposedly romantic day of the year is hurtful. Can you let him know how you feel? I'd be jealous of his female friends too. That's not difficult to understand. You obviously really care for him - he should know how that situation made you feel.
NJ400
NJ400
Thats my life every day. Take care of her then when she is out of site, I am a ghost left with all the bad vibes from taking care of some one that hates me and my kids.

I am sorry.
Community LeaderWanderingVet
WanderingVet
Do I get this right? Your husband went out on Valentine's day, leaving you alone, to uh ... be 'out' with his female friends? Not sure. You might want to proof read your posts before you submit.

If I am right, dump this guy. If I am wrong, (at a good time), explain to him how you feel. If he is in denial, seek marriage counseling ... for either you or both of you. If that doesn't work, dump him.
akacountrygirl
akacountrygirl
Don't feel bad or alone. I have had the same experience. Not even a Happy Valentine's Day was spoken. I asked him if he(my husband) if he had forgotten what day it was. He said no and that he thought he would take me out to dinner one day next week. Still no Happy Valentine's day or a kiss or a hug. I truly believe he treats me badly on purpose. It's just another form of abuse..Emotional abuse.

I am right here with you. Feel free to message me. Much love.
whatswrong19
whatswrong19
unfortunately, this is the more common experience of relationships a female has. I being female will not except a relationship that is not something that makes me happy. Other people's emotions are not my building blocks to self acceptance, this has it's pros and cons just like anything else. hope you get it worked out and figure out what is best for you and your situation.
NJ400
NJ400
How many of us fools thought that yesterday would be different? Just leave before stakes get higher. I had no idea what real depression was until it was too late. Your smart coming on these boards. Once finances and kids mix with depression, anxiety, or bi polar, your in for a very disrespectful life.