if u have to ask then u dont know what im talking about.

A motive to get out of bed in the morning? To give a damn about your life?

a motive to change your disturbing profile pic?

you need to find your own motive. if others have to give you a motive, its not a motive or a goal worth working on or working for, now is it?

jesus.. how about some spit on that grave aswell

What Mary said.

We can give you reasons, this board is full of them. Read almost any thread here. But the motive/motivation has to come from *you.*

For me, my motive was my children.

THANK YOU.. someone gave me an answer

Well golly gee sorry.. it's a little hard to give an "answer" when you don't even tell us what you want.....

motive.. i just wanted a motive. maybe ur motive is rainbows or the fairy f***ing queen. i dident think a motive was gonna be so difficult and what seemed to be confrontational.

that one person said her kids.. thats a motive.. thats it.. a motive. not the plans to a flux capaciter.. motive

You didn't specify a motive do to what... that's what we're getting at.

The answer will be very very different depending on the question you are asking...

like..

What is a motive to ..... go to school?
compared to
What is a motive to..... get out of bed in the morning
or
..... go to work today
or
...... clean my house.


Does that make a little more sense?

no! i dident specify for a reason. i dont care wat the reason is. just a motive

like i said, the woman said her kids are a motive. thats it... end of story... simple answer... hooray!

I'm aware of what i posted, i dont expect a buncha psychics to be present.

I have lived in that colorless, lifeless world too. Most of us have or still do. I had the best motivation a person could possibly have for fighting it and I still lost every battle until I got help from my doctor. A motivation is great, don't get me wrong, it is fantastic! But you cannot will away the chemical imbalance in your limbic system any more than you can will away deafness.

Since I've gotten help my world is in color again. I am able to enjoy life and I had truly given up ever feeling actual joy again.

well if we're talking about what our personal motives are...

.. mine is the potential to, in some small way, change some small part of the world for the better.

Well perhaps you should also be aware that your attitude is alienating a lot of people who are more than happy to support you but not more than happy to be harassed by you for no reason at all.

Seems like your motive is to be vague enough in your post to be able to use our confusion as a reason to do whatever it is that you want to do but don't want to say because you don't want to be told you shouldn't really do that..... Fine, but not cool. You are not 17 stop acting like it.

If you want help great... if you wanna pick a fight so you can do your harm well.... grow up and act your age.

bah.. never been to doctors.. never will. I'm sure it has worked for thousands of people with that chemical thing in their head.
Not me and im not going to make the attempt