Ouch...That's a nasty thing to do

Kikio this is more about who they are...Not you!!

They're unkind and not responsible

I'm sorry that you've been hurt...xo

I got messages like that too sometimes. But those are scammers. If they ask you for money or information, don't tell them. They taget those lonely people. Which are most people.

I am sorry....was this a female friend and a male or a male with a female? and it could have been female with female but I doubt it was male with male....but what does that matter unless we are talking about competition between girl and guy time....that would just hurt even more...

Thank you suncloud *hugs*

Perter.....no I wish it were a scammer. That would be better.
She's an in- person friend, who would rather hang out with another lady we both know and see regularly (but is not someone I know well or would consider a friend)

Thanks bill *hugs*

Well still stings to think of yourself as the last resulting person they want to be with....wow...

I'm sorry Kikio! You didn't deserve that!

Pardon my language, "screw that friend." I pray you find new friends who are worthy of your time (hug)

This is so relatable right now and I know how crappy it feels. Hopefully there’s others out there who will want to put us first.

I met this new woman on the neighborhood app. First I had health issues and now I guess she does. She cancelled for last week. Did not say she found a better person to go to lunch with though!

Something tells me this person is not a good person, not a person of high character or maturity to dump you and admit why. Yet, knowing the truth of it can free you. Now you know who she is. Don't take this personally, she would dump the next one in line, too. Rather see this as you dodged a bullet as we say in my part of the country. You don't have to invest any more time knowing her character and maturity and unkindness towards other human beings.

The problem is NOT the you don't measure up. The problem is SHE doesn't measure up to your standards of wanting a high quality friend. It does sting but you are actually saved. Flip the script here.

In my situation, I am not sure she is truly capable of being a friend at this time. So I sort of feel glad she cancelled lunch and we talked on the phone for an hour instead. We would not have gotten deep into personal things at the restaurant. Some things have already kind of bothered me about this woman who cancelled on me. She emails me a lot or texts me a lot. Too much. Begs us to make lunch plans, then cancelled. I know it happens but this seemed like divine protection of my heart, if that makes sense. Maybe I don't need to invest more energy in this woman.

That’s just shitty.

-_-

I think I'm about to get stood up again.

Tomorrow morning was our raincheck date. She told me she would let me know where we would meet up for breakfast.
It's 11:19 pm
But still don't know where or IF we're actually going to have breakfast.

I had hoped that maybe there was a good reason before.
Maybe there still is .
I don't know.

I would text and say where are we meeting up

If she doesn't come through this time to hell with her sweetie

She dosen't deserve your friendship

Big hug...xo