That sounds rough. But, I know and understand where you're coming from. What was the relationship like between you two before he started acting all distant?

Well h used to be my guitar teacher years ago but we kept in contact. He told me I was no bother and that h wanted me to talk to him about anything that was on my mind and he didn't want me to feel alone. Now he ignores me and make sure me feel like I'm a hassle to talk to. I honestly think he hates me

I honestly wouldn't say that he hates you. Maybe he has a busy schedule. You say he used to teach you guitar, no? Well, it could be that he has limited time to respond. I honestly don't think it's you at all. Also, if you need someone to talk to, I'm here. I understand what it's like to feel neglected and alone.
But, you seem like a strong person and that you'll pull through it. Give it some time and maybe he'll respond.

Friends always say those kinds of things to each other...they want to be supportive. But the reality is, friends don't make good Therapists. They don't know how to deal with the issues, they don't know how to advise you on the issues, and they get uncomfortable constantly talking about things. Its best to keep your friends as friends and seek a Counselor or Therapist to do your "heavy feelings discussion" with.

He's the one who said he understood. He said he went through same things and he wanted to talk,he wanted to help me but now he won't talk to me. I made sure multiple times that he was ok with us talking this way and he said that he had me no matter what and now I'm alone.

I am in the same boat. A person who I've been talking to online since last year. Has been ignoring me like the plegue on Facebook. He won't talk to me unless it's once a week late at night when their drinking. And that was for a while now they don't talk to me at all. I try messaging them. But someone told me if I over message it's called stalking and harassing. And that made me feel bad so I haven't messaged the person for a few days now and it hurts. And sucks royally. Maybe the person will contact you soon. As I hope my so called friend will contact me too. If you need to talk just message me and I'll reply.

People change-where once they felt like they could be the friend you needed/wanted-well maybe its all got a bit much....that is their right-no one is divinely ordained to be our guardian angel. we have to be that for ourselves. Anything else is a bonus. Make efforts to widen your friends network and if you want to have a friend, you have to be afriend. Also dont be afraid to shop around for a Counsellor or therapist-Im am sure a genuine one would be happy to meet even if only for a short appointment to see if you get on and for you to ask some questions about where they are coming from etc. We all jump in so quickly and live to regret it. Boyfriends, professionals, tradespeople, neighbours, workplaces.....

You know I am hoping this site will help me get through my darkest hours. There seems like someone is always here who understands or at least has good intentions. It really feels like a support groups where no one judges anyone else. Yes sometimes people we count on let us down. They go through stuff to and maybe get overwhelmed. But here people will be there for you. People here answer the cry for help, because we have been there before when there was no one. I am sorry to hear that this is a rough time for you. Just get through one day at a time, and know there are others here going though the same experience. That helps and makes me feel not as alone as I did.

Very important to make sure it isn't your meds that are making you feel worse. My daughter died because of her meds. She was on antidepressants and wasn't told that the meds she was taking had suicide thoughts as part of the side effects. Check out rxisk.org and type in the names of your meds to see if they have suicide as a side effect. If so, switch your meds if you have to be on them.

I overcame without meds so it can be done.

Sometimes there is no-one to listen to us, no-one to talk with, and we feel desperately alone--but we are never alone. There are holy angels all around us.

You are your own best friend so be good to you. Take your right hand and put it on your left shoulder and take your left hand and put it on your right shoulder. Now give yourself a BIG hug from you.

And then give yourself another BIG hug from all of us here at DS. We are all in this world together and we care.

You will get through this time. Sometimes talking outloud to yourself while looking in the mirror helps. Or journaling--so you can express your emotions and thoughts on paper which helps to not have to think about it all the time because it is written down so you can refer back to it anytime you want.

Things will get better!!

I always believe there should be a healthy boundaries in any kind of relationship and that includes friendship. While your friend is keen to journey with you through this difficult moment, it's also good for him and you to set some limitation in this helping journey. After all, you don't want him to feel burned out having to cope with his own life and helping you. I don't think it's beneficial for him or you if he is feeling this way. Also, healthy boundaries indicates a good level of respect for each other.

Echoing some of the members advice on your meds, might be good to have it check if it's helping you or not. Be well and take care. God bless!