Depression - Teen Support Group

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passionfruit3
passionfruit3
so im your average girl though im totally obesse and not to bright and im not to pretty but my question what do you do to get guys to like you? how do you get them to notice you ?how do unattractive girls look attractive? And how do you catch there intrest? that and any other advice you could give would be great
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well I judge a girl by who they are. A gut out looking for an attractive girl is just an ass. Just because you arn't the most attractive girl doesn't mean you won't meet a cute guy.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You realise what you just said was kind of ironic and contradictory. By saying the girl doesnt have to be attractive to meet someone yet the guy she can supposedly meet will be cute (ie attractive) is kind of a double standard. No one should be judged on their looks, only by their personality. Unfortunately, in our society, coming across people who don't judge based on what is on the outside is very rare. Especially at a younger age, where a lot of the focus is on superficial things. We all make some sort of unconscious judgement of the people we meet. Thats not to say that people wont like you for you if you are unnattractive.

My advice would be to try to be confident, know what your good qualities are and own them. Be friendly, kind and outgoing and try to meet people. Everyone can look nice simply by dressing nicely and looking after their appearance in simple ways like shaving your legs and armpits. But overrall, the most important thing to remember is you cant love some else until you can love yourself. And theres no need to rush into a relationship or go looking for guys. Youll meet many guys throughout your life.

Hope this helped.