Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
Has anyone here experienced recovery while in their codependent relationship?
I feel that my husband and I are mutually codependent on each other and we are keeping each other stuck. I want to start working on change but feel it may not be possible if I stay in this relationship.
Don't get me wrong. I love my husband and enjoy being with him. I just see how much I regress around him and find it difficult to make myself improve because it's so easy to fall back into old routines.
Recently I noticed that when my husband isn't around I'm more productive and able to make decisions. The opposite is true when he is home. I only noticed this recently. I also came to the conclusion over the holidays that all my biggest decisions in life were made out of fear. I haven't actually created a life for myself, I have only reacted to others.