Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
Let me just give you a quick background: All my relationships have been with addicts!
Drugs/Alcohol/Sex
I kicked my husband out and that took me 13 yrs to do (the one before him had to leave me, he was abusive also). I still haven't filed for divorce, but recently started looking into it.
I then found out he was seeing someone and continuing on with his life and I completely lost it and begged him to still be with me (haven't let him move back in, but I'm close....and I DON"T WANT HIM BACK)
WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME??? I am seeing a counselor, I am thinking of getting a new one, because we don't spend much time working on me, but on my situations, and I strongly believe my situations are because of me (does that make any sense?)
Anyway, I'm just in a position, where I know what I'm doing isn't what I want, yet I just have to hang on and not let go. I don't get it!!! I don't like it!! I don' t know how to change it!
Drugs/Alcohol/Sex
I kicked my husband out and that took me 13 yrs to do (the one before him had to leave me, he was abusive also). I still haven't filed for divorce, but recently started looking into it.
I then found out he was seeing someone and continuing on with his life and I completely lost it and begged him to still be with me (haven't let him move back in, but I'm close....and I DON"T WANT HIM BACK)
WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME??? I am seeing a counselor, I am thinking of getting a new one, because we don't spend much time working on me, but on my situations, and I strongly believe my situations are because of me (does that make any sense?)
Anyway, I'm just in a position, where I know what I'm doing isn't what I want, yet I just have to hang on and not let go. I don't get it!!! I don't like it!! I don' t know how to change it!
I am addicted to my addict! It's a vicious cycle, I desperatly want to break. I just wish I could do it without the pain that is going to come it it.
Here anytime you need a friend!!
Sunsine