Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
So I'm codependent. I am n my 2nd marriage and trying to understand why I'm so tense around my wife. There is some drama but no violence. She get into a passive agressive thing lately slamming things, stomping around. Thats hard. But it's really the little things that seem to add up overvtime. Like death by a thousand cuts. Example: I say something to get a converdation going, she shuts it down. Then two minutes later she wants me to listen to her. Multply this by at least everyday, for 10 years now and I stop talking and I just feel burned over and over again. I don't want this.
Like walking around in my own special H**l.
It was not what i had signed on for or Ever
expected from my spouse.
I am more biblical about marriage and My
Vows. Some think its a flexible idea i don't
And probably never will. I believe a marriage
Is between a husband, wife and God and Thats
it. Its a spiritual bond and its a very precious
gift and i am not really religious its just How
i feel about the sanctity of marriage.
The problem is it takes two healthy People with
strong healthy boundaries and self love. Neither
of us had that and our marriage failed badly after
a while. I don't think it Would go any better now
between us. Too much bad happened and there
is no moving past it, HUGS