Chronic Pain Support Group
Physicians and professionalsdefine pain as chronic if it lasts longer than three to six months and is persistent. It's distinct from acute pain that is a direct result of injury or trauma. This support group is dedicated to those suffering from chronic pain. Discuss treatments that have worked for you, find advice for your specific experience, and find support. You're not...
Okay, I'm not trying to be weird here or anything. I've seen no mention of this, and I KNOW I am not the only one in this instance. I'm usually a pretty private person, so I'm going to keep this vague.
I was going to ask does anyone else, but I already know that, so, I guess it would be, when you miss how things used to be, and the pre-pain, pre-meds- pre- exhaustion sex is one of them, does it break your heart a little?
I'm an old married woman who, after 15 years together, is still very much in love with my husband. With good reason, he is a wonderful husband. In every way. ( is that vague enough?) I, on the other hand, am not the wife I used to be. Not to look at and not in, um, any of my actions (I was going to say not in action, ha, ha, I think I think I'm trying too hard to be careful. My husband would probably ammend that to inaction ha)
Okay,I said seriously and I meant it. It sometimes makes me so sad for me and for him how much my health has changed that part of our love.
No offense to anyone's sensibilities,I hope.
I was going to ask does anyone else, but I already know that, so, I guess it would be, when you miss how things used to be, and the pre-pain, pre-meds- pre- exhaustion sex is one of them, does it break your heart a little?
I'm an old married woman who, after 15 years together, is still very much in love with my husband. With good reason, he is a wonderful husband. In every way. ( is that vague enough?) I, on the other hand, am not the wife I used to be. Not to look at and not in, um, any of my actions (I was going to say not in action, ha, ha, I think I think I'm trying too hard to be careful. My husband would probably ammend that to inaction ha)
Okay,I said seriously and I meant it. It sometimes makes me so sad for me and for him how much my health has changed that part of our love.
No offense to anyone's sensibilities,I hope.
you've driven me from the arena of combat jc.
i'm dazed......i'm reeling.............i'm gonna go get in my chair with my heatin pads....my dog who loves me...........................and pout.
perhaps this way lies some sleep.
PEACE.............:)
GuessI better go study " When Harry met Sally". That was necessarily vague, hope y'all got it.
"I'll have what shes having..."
;~}
just kiddin........NOTHIN WRONG with exchanging favors
I'm equal opportunity here - adding to both threads. I don't want anyone to think I am favoring ice cream over sex or vice versa.
But like with any other thing with chronic pain, we adjust, ask for help, change our priorities and do the best we can do, that's all we can do.
So touching that after 15 years you love your husband enough to worry about him too...
Thank you all for the great laughs, and the great honesty, and the great advice.