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Okay, I'm not trying to be weird here or anything. I've seen no mention of this, and I KNOW I am not the only one in this instance. I'm usually a pretty private person, so I'm going to keep this vague.
I was going to ask does anyone else, but I already know that, so, I guess it would be, when you miss how things used to be, and the pre-pain, pre-meds- pre- exhaustion sex is one of them, does it break your heart a little?
I'm an old married woman who, after 15 years together, is still very much in love with my husband. With good reason, he is a wonderful husband. In every way. ( is that vague enough?) I, on the other hand, am not the wife I used to be. Not to look at and not in, um, any of my actions (I was going to say not in action, ha, ha, I think I think I'm trying too hard to be careful. My husband would probably ammend that to inaction ha)
Okay,I said seriously and I meant it. It sometimes makes me so sad for me and for him how much my health has changed that part of our love.
No offense to anyone's sensibilities,I hope.
I was going to ask does anyone else, but I already know that, so, I guess it would be, when you miss how things used to be, and the pre-pain, pre-meds- pre- exhaustion sex is one of them, does it break your heart a little?
I'm an old married woman who, after 15 years together, is still very much in love with my husband. With good reason, he is a wonderful husband. In every way. ( is that vague enough?) I, on the other hand, am not the wife I used to be. Not to look at and not in, um, any of my actions (I was going to say not in action, ha, ha, I think I think I'm trying too hard to be careful. My husband would probably ammend that to inaction ha)
Okay,I said seriously and I meant it. It sometimes makes me so sad for me and for him how much my health has changed that part of our love.
No offense to anyone's sensibilities,I hope.
nothing for me and i miss it all.....i get very lobely for affaction but then i dont feel attractive in the first place and im not looking for a mate..on purpose..im too sick to burden a man....oh well thats my life!!!!!!!!
Definitely need heaps of pillows and a sence of humor, luckily we have always been able to laugh together, at our selves. But yes the connection and afterglow worth the recovery ....timing is everything with CP. But romance sometimes soothes .....like distraction !
Work on it just like a Normal would! ;)
too funny lisa
sexy sexterton.
sexitysexitysex.........sex...............SEX.
there..........jc.......you satisfied now?
whoa......poor choice of phrase there.
YO.....jc...i showed up.i've done it............happy now?
shit, did it again........why am i having such trouble here?
i mean really..this hardly ever happens to me.....really.
maybe i'm just tired.
i'll try to get some rest and try this again later.
shit....i feel like such a loser
.........sigh....
I notice there aren't a lot of men responding ( truly, no pun intended). This must be a more difficult ( notice me carefully avoiding saying harder) issue for them. I appreciate the couple that did.
Okay, now I need this thread to outrun Eeyows ice cream thread, so we may have to spice it up a bit.
but......................ice cream is FOREVER!
Geez did you guys read what your wrote? Nite you are tired, sore and medicated. So set the alarm a half hour earlier and get some nookie!! You will feel better from the endorphins.
Something else to remember is that Sex is not just intercourse. There are lots of things that will get your endorphins jumping. Snugggling and chatting is a nice way to start the day. Foreplay can also be enough. The rest I leave to your imagination.
I agree with the others. Try different positions, get a book if you need, talk about what works and what doesn't. We've changed alot of how and when it happens to make sure it does happen.
Foreplay and other ways! Oh yeah--He will think you are the QUEEN!
Ice cream melts.
But then,I suppose that you can say women do, too in the right hands.
Thanks for the um, social intercourse.
Sorry, folks we have a bet, and the gloves are off.
I'm not advocating not using a "glove"
P.s. I'm very happily married and my husband would lol at this.
My DH tho understanding would not let me go "without" so I suffer a bit, especially after the back surgery, which this may have caused the back trouble in the first place.
An understanding and caring partner is important to understand it may not be as often, but when you "do it" it means the world.
Got some good laughs from this discussion.