Chronic Pain Support Group
Physicians and professionalsdefine pain as chronic if it lasts longer than three to six months and is persistent. It's distinct from acute pain that is a direct result of injury or trauma. This support group is dedicated to those suffering from chronic pain. Discuss treatments that have worked for you, find advice for your specific experience, and find support. You're not...
Ok, my hubby is mad cause i didnt want "it" this am, i said im having major pain can you wait an hr til meds kick in? He went downstairs, mad. I said i was sorry, but im really not. Whats anyones sex life with chronic pain?
I am deeminx,s BF she suffers from the dreaded pain shit.
There,s times when my Dee cant be bothered to have sex.she gets tiered or kranky sometimes,its not her fault she,s like the way she is,she didn,t ask for a nearly 24/7 pain,and yes i moaned if i could,nt get my leg over,sounds selfish i know.i was wanting some cuddles.she was to sore to do anything.i try and understand what she feel,and am gettig there.Dee works,dosen,t lye down to her condition,i take my hat off to her,and all of you for putting up with pain.so dont dispair,ok.lots of love to you all.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i have no problems with the erection side of things but i do have a problem in finishing the job due to the pain levels going through the roof.
My poor wife thought it was her and that i was no longer attracted to her which couldnt be further from the truth. I have no managed to explain to her that for us guys to have an orgasam we need mental stimulation and thats almost imposiable to do when every stroke feels like someone is stabing you in your back with a red hot sword and ontop of that is the problem of the pain medication which makes my mind wander off the job at hand and also stops me from ejaculating.
i am a very lucky man as my wife now totaly understands why our sex life has changed but i do feel very sorry for you out there that dont have an understandung partner like i do.
after 25 years of being together and 20 years of mariage i now know that sex is only a small part of our relationship and seeing that its that painful to do we have focused more on going out for dinners and stuff like that. I am very pleased i can still make her climax and it still makes me feel like a real man but i did feel very sorry for her when she told me she felt that i was no longer attracted to her.
remember folks there is more to a great relashionship than just the sex side of things.