Chronic Pain Support Group
Physicians and professionalsdefine pain as chronic if it lasts longer than three to six months and is persistent. It's distinct from acute pain that is a direct result of injury or trauma. This support group is dedicated to those suffering from chronic pain. Discuss treatments that have worked for you, find advice for your specific experience, and find support. You're not...
..I didn't know if saying Bitchy is appropriate.
.....I'm not talkin' the anger stage of grief, here..
I'm talking the irritable, snappy, grumpy..just plain bitchy that I sometimes get when hurting.
Surely, I'm not the only one?
I try..mostly successfully..to keep it between my ears..
But...it's made it's way from my mouth..
..and..yes..on occasion onto this keyboard.
More and more in my head, though..
I SO don't want to become bitter...
...it would be so easy living this way.
My worst offenses, I think...are when normals complain of a CES and pains....what I sometimes think in those times is not fit for print..:-)
Just sayin'...:-)
Hugs..jc
.....I'm not talkin' the anger stage of grief, here..
I'm talking the irritable, snappy, grumpy..just plain bitchy that I sometimes get when hurting.
Surely, I'm not the only one?
I try..mostly successfully..to keep it between my ears..
But...it's made it's way from my mouth..
..and..yes..on occasion onto this keyboard.
More and more in my head, though..
I SO don't want to become bitter...
...it would be so easy living this way.
My worst offenses, I think...are when normals complain of a CES and pains....what I sometimes think in those times is not fit for print..:-)
Just sayin'...:-)
Hugs..jc
I think it's what holds this place together no matter what.
Harpie...are you saying I'm a downer? Hahahaha..I know what you meant.
I am beside myself. Heart broken does not cut it. I'm knocking myself out, it's 12 am. I can't handle my grief another minute. Tanks for listening x
I'm not always..
OK..I am mostly always hurting..
But..I'm not always angry..
That's not what I meant...we'll..I get angry at my circumstances..just as you..and I suppose most of us , do..
But..I'm not often angry at others..
I'm sorry you've been hurting for so long.
Hugs
I think we've all been bitchy at one time or another. Pain will do that to you.
I also get angry when "normal" people talk about their aches and pains, as if they are debilitating live the pain we live with.
My husband hurt his back many years ago, and had to go to the ER when it hurt him again. You'd think someone was killing him. I so wanted to say, "See? Now you know how I feel every day", but I didn't. It wouldn't have helped at the time anyway.
We were talking about this just last week and I finally said, "See? Now you know how I feel every day". And he said, "Yes, now I know". He's mostly been sympathetic towards me when it comes to my illnesses/injuries/pain. He just said "til death do we part" when I asked him if he'd ever leave me again. I don't think he will...
But, to get back to the topic at hand, don't ever feel you can't be bitchy here- it's what the site is for!
(((Hugs)))
Sandy
I try to ground myself by looking for the positive instead of the negative, because I know the negative will just help me dig that hole deeper.
I think we all need an oasis to go to when we feel this way!
Boy do I knjow what you mean. I took dad to ER one day with a trow up bucket in my lap while I drove. He just told me to stop and get hinm to the ER.
HE had been sick for 4 weeks and just laid on the couch moaning, no doctor calls or appointments no nothing. But when I am sick he acts like it is just making a big deal outta nothing.
To get back tot he topic. If people would just allow people to have their threads not be hijacked by chaning the subject and start their own, this would be better a place.
Please forgive. As you all know I am dsylexic. On realloy bad days like today. I write in word and copy paste or you would not be able to read my comments. And the last thing I posted here was partly left from something at the bottom of the page that I did not see until I looked here again. I am sorry for any confusion. It has nothing to do with what JC is saying.
Statistically it helps HEALTHY people keep their hand s in icy water for 20% more time.
I'll take any ecuse to curse a blue streak when pain is real bad!!!
I am EVIL and will rot in hell some day......
that is fro sister mary who claimed I was demon spawn in 3rd grade.
But what did she know.... she did not remember her name most days she was 900 years old.
Dang these hurting fingers.... n worn out body.... I wanna new one....
Huge (((((Hugs)))))) my dear friends.....
You sir..may be as bitchy as you please..
Hugs..
staying away from grown ups so i dont be rude,bitchy,
im trying to stop it but i am more that way the worse i hurt and today is bad,i cant curse in front of the kids but if it helps pain,im going in the bathroom and cussing myself out!!!!!!!!