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Your love went away.

Rman
Rman
I will never REALLY know why she stopped being in love with me. But she did...guess I was shit out of luck. It still hurts, but if I can get through it, then anyone can...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I still didnt see an answer. Deflecting wont help deal with the hurt at hand.

Are you planning on moving out or is she? Are you two going to try and work it out? What is your plan?

You can't heal and move on if you face the beast face to face daily
Rman
Rman
I'm not leaving. This is my house and she's the one who wants this shit. She is welcome to leave at any time. Without the kids.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I hope she does leave without the kids.

Soon, because I'd really like to see you quit smoking and being such a baby. *wink*
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good for you RMan. Now tell her to get a job and leave. You might have to share the kids though. Remember that. The day she moves out file papers with the circuit court. Maryland calls it a limited divorce. You can start establishing custody with that.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Are you hand feeding her money for the spending sprees I have read about? Can you cut off her fun money? From what I read she is all about money.
deleted_user
deleted_user
"Why does so and so stop loving?" Because it's a fact of life. People grow and change. It's inevitable. I'm not being mean, but people do not marry and stay married forever anymore unless they are super lucky. "Til death do us part?" Come on. Archaic. I was 27 when I married. I am now 43. As is normal, I am not the same in my 40's as I was in my 20's. I don't feel the same way for my partner that I did then. Some is on him. Some is on me. But, bottom line, people change. It always sucks for one person.