the worst thing is each and every single lie he ever told me - and there were many!

he tried the "the whole 10 eyars was bad" but backed off some when I reminded him of some things including he asked me to marry him 2 years into the 10 -- if it was that bad, why marry me, lol?

some of the other worst things involved our dog after he left, and how he dealt with us losing her to death - and the way he dealt with the one time that I know for sure about that he raped me (there's probably more, but can't be certain)- and then there's the things that he omitted to say, those were bad too.

I really don't like my ex.

when I told mine I was willing to forgive her for cheating on me with 2 different men and take her back.. she said quote..

" you wanting to take me back is nothing special..who the hell would want you?..your a f##king piece of sh#t.." end quote

this from the woman I spent 15yrs??

hmmmm...goldielocks told me the day before she was to meet prince charming that she didn't want to hurt me.....so she took off her ring and said she just wanted to spend a "guilt" free weekend with a friend.......i suggested we put her ring in a safe spot...but alas.....she refused to bend over.

called me and eldest child
f%*#ing lying manipulative c#nts said many other things but when he said it with eldest involved it stood out.

Mine asked me "what do you contribute to this marraige besides cleaning the toilets?"

After 14 years of marriage in counseling my husband told the therapist he didn't "do relationships".

Just before our marriage counselling early in the marriage (should of been a sign) he told me that he only married me so that he could help in re-populating the world and that I was just a baby machine.

"I just want a fresh start"

This hurt cuz I had stayed with him though dozens of one night stands and affairs, had supported him financially when he got demote because of his behavior, had made sure he understood before we got married that divorce was not an option since I had already done that and could not allow someone to break my boys hearts again. :(

Mine gave me diamond earrings for xmasa and in th esame breath told me he fell out of love with me and the day the divorce was final he said he never wanted the divorce.