I still talk to my EX boyfriend even though we broke up 8 months ago. He even moved on and found someone else and when she broke his heart he wanted to be friends with me again and confide in me about their issues. Now that he is over her he thinks its ok to go back to treating me like shit while he finds another woman to be with. Like he wants to be able to talk to me like I am one of his guy friends. I love and care about him too much to hear him talk about other women and not get uncomfortable/sad/jealous. I do not want to date or meet anyone new right now as I am healing from this bad relationship but I cannot seem to stop talking to him and wanting him in my life. I do not have a lot of friends and want to find some that are single and around my age (30). I am in Minnesota if there are others out there close to me. I just dont know what to do or how to stop talking to him. someone told me its codependency and someone else told me it is battered womens syndrome. I think it may be a bit of both but he is also a narcissistic person and is a good charmer when he wants something from me or pittys me enough. this relationship consumes me and I am obsessed. I know this I just dont know how to cut ties. I have tried blocking his number but something reminds me of him and I unblock him and call him to tell him. We do not see each other on social media or in person either so it's mainly emails, texts and phone calls. I dont have anyone else to talk to about this either so I resort to trying to talk to him about it and he is rude, inconsiderate and unemotional. HELP!!
I have issues with alcohol. I sometimes drank up to 35 units a week. Frequently drove drunk. Had some dark thoughts.However the last few weeks Have cut down to about 20 units. I dont drink everyday.Im wondering if after a period of Alchol abuse-do people ever return to being just a social drinker? Has that ever happened?
My husband of 28 years decided he didn't want to have sex a couple of years ago. He gave me this pronouncement a few months after sucessfully completing cancer treatment and had just started helping my little sister and brother-in-law with her cancer (terminal). The timing couldn't have been worse. I lost my shit and managed, after beating it into his head, to get a compromise of having sex once...