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I sent a joking comment to one site member and in my comment, I said I was taken. I just made a comment.
I was asked what I was doing here on Divorce and Breakups.
Isn't this site for those who have experienced divorce and for those who feel they can encourage and lift up those who are hurting?
I have been thru a divorce. My previous marriage was a war zone. I was stabbed, beaten, threatened to be killed, knocked down by a car she was driving, she attempted to shoot me, had an ex-lover threaten to kill me, this was all done by my high school sweetheart. Do I qualify to be here or not? I thought this was a free site and open to all who felt they could contribute to others. Maybe not!!!
oldbiker
I was asked what I was doing here on Divorce and Breakups.
Isn't this site for those who have experienced divorce and for those who feel they can encourage and lift up those who are hurting?
I have been thru a divorce. My previous marriage was a war zone. I was stabbed, beaten, threatened to be killed, knocked down by a car she was driving, she attempted to shoot me, had an ex-lover threaten to kill me, this was all done by my high school sweetheart. Do I qualify to be here or not? I thought this was a free site and open to all who felt they could contribute to others. Maybe not!!!
oldbiker
Thank you! You belong in the DS family!!
Ignore those that are bitter....
:)
Some people tend to lash out around here.
Because there is not a nun with her big ruler it can get tough at times.
But you also have to develope some tough skin at times, or just not respond to some of the tougher comments or threads.
I have been here almost two years, I have learned what to look for.
I can tell I am on my way out, but still like to come once in and take a look.
Its great that you want to help, I am sure some will appreciate ya.
Hang in there you old biker you...
That was just one opinion, others wanted me to stay!
No I cant do it, someone else tell her!
The tenor of OlBiker's message to ||47|| is, by itself, a little odd. It doesn't seem as thought they know each other, but he's telling her he loves to give massages? Doesn't that strike anyone else as a little . . . ick? Perhaps not so coincidentally, ||47||'s profile pic is a picture of herself and she's an attractive lady.
OldBiker, to paraphrase one of the best dialogues from "Pulp Fiction," would you have written to ME and told me you love to give massages?
Personally, I've sent out much more flirty messages than that, so who am I to say the message was icky? Then again, I'm not married and certainly haven't been married for 34 years.
OldBiker, as far as I'm concerned, you were flirting. I'm certainly not going to look down my nose at you, though. I do that all the time here, and so do a lot of other people. But don't play the victim, okay?
And don't pull the minister/pastor card and offer to "counsel" women you were flirting with a second prior. That's really fucking creepy.