Undecided.

yay! Meow Doxie is staying :)

i dont want everyone to leave.

I've been on here for over two years. My divorce in final; I don't see or speak to my ex; my healing is ongoing and my life is in a pretty good place.

I stay to help the newbies going through this horrific life event. I wouldn't be where I am today without the love and support of people on DS.

I think it's important to remember why we are here. I've seen lots of these blow-ups in the past two years. Some people return; some don't. It's part of life. Eventually most of us will leave because we have healed and moved on. Part of the process.

Stay because you feel you need to, for whatever reason. If you need to leave, then go with good wishes and thoughts following you.

Only you can make that decision.

Agreeing with you Jaken - I'm glad to know there is a place I can still be in touch with some of them.

Lynne

I agree with what you wrote Jaken.

I just want support and someone to care and give me advice. I just journaled on mine b/c i was to afraid to post

*shrug*

I come and go, post and don't, throw out general bullshit, have the occasional trauma/breakdown/absolute schitzophrenic outburst.

I bob, I weave, I dodge, I frolic....

I am out of the loop. What is going on?

Staying

Rman if you go, I will come kick your ass!

I've heard quite a few people say they're too afraid to post now.....please don't be. Through all the bullcrap, there's always room for healthy support.

Be gentle Farenheight, Rbaby just admitted to being a woman......kick his ass with gentleness

I am not afraid to post...I am woman, hear me roar...

I like the lil lady man baby

Geez...did I just hear Rman is REALLY a woman?! All this talk about his pee-pee and he doesn't even have one. *wipes her tears*

I'm staying. I have amzaing support from my friends, I go to counseling and I go to divorce support groups in combination all have helped me get to where I am today which is a good place emotionally. DS...is the one place where I can come to 24/7 and talk to people who know what I am going through. It has been my life line and I will continue to leverage this while trying to help others by adding my personal experience and thoughts on things.

I think its a damn shame when I read that people are afraid to post. It not only hurts themselves but it also hurts everyone else on here who might gain something from the subsequent posts. I stay out of the drama...although I have been close to adding my two cents on topics as well as certain people on here. I have my opinions...but they're my opinions. There's enough drama in my life to get baited or dragged into something here. Ultimately, I hope everyone stays...it's a community and we fortunately/unfortunately all have the common bond of being here for similar reasons...we're essentially in it together so let's try and get through this together....just my two cents.

Yeah FD...I really feel the same. Know I am undecided at times but for now I need to be here. I have made some amazing friendships, as well, and I hope there is more to come.