Hello. I am wanting to see if anyone else has had issues after their divorce with their ex being very difficult to deal with. My ex has been very difficult to work with. It has been many years since we were divorce, but he continuously uses the children as pawns. He is very emotionally and mentally abusive and plays mind games with the children. He has called me numerous names in front of them (some that I would have to bleep out on here even). He constantly lies to them and to me.
Communication is almost non-existing between us. I want to be able to have a mutual relationship with him, for the sake of our children, but no matter what I try he constantly defies it. I feel like I am at wits end with what else to try. Has anyone else dealt with this and any suggestions on how to work with it? The legal system has become very expensive and doesn't always have the children's best interest involved. I would appreciate any input that may help.
I need to vent because I'm really frustrated. Why the hell is everyone saying the same thing and giving the same advice? I go on many different forums regarding sleep and anxiety and there's nothing new to be learned. Everyone is just regurgitating the same unhelpful advice, it seems, just so that they could put in their two cents. I found out a few weeks ago that I have a severe vitamin D...
I've never posted on any sites or really read many other post until just a few days ago. Primarily because until a few months ago I thought everything was OK. Not sure how much or how little I'm supposed to share. My wife and I have been married for 16yrs. For the most part I always thought we we're happy and others that knew us would agree. We recently moved because of my job and she started...