Just not ever being here and when he was acting like he knew a damn thing that was going on.

It was like having a stranger drop in from time to time to comment on how cute my kids are but tell me I spent too much on groceries.

I don't miss him at all. I miss what he should have been.

She was also very critical of people, although she would deny it to this day

Well, his lying was more devastating than annoying. He has A LOT of annoying traits I was willing to put up with while we were still together, but now that we're separated but living in the same house, they're killin' me! One he just did...he doesn't dry off when getting out of the shower so now the carpet's all wet from his big ole feet.

Not doing what he said he would do, then calling me a nag when confronting him about it.

Leaving his snot rags on the floor I would wake up in the middle of the night to go pea and end up steping on them so gross.

First, the blatant selfishness. Everything was filtered through his own rose colored selfish glasses. He apparently lacked the ability to consider whether what he was doing was fair or how it would affect his partner. (I think now he was just too selfish to give a shit.)

Second, his inability to take responsibility for his actions. If I brought up the things he did/said that hurt me, he would defend himself to the death - negating me and the way I felt in the process. I didn't matter as much as him.

Third, he didn't see me or what I wanted/needed as a priority at all. I had to have my tonsils out when we were together. My mom and sister were going to be with me the day of surgery, but I wanted him to stay with me the next day, knowing I'd be groggy and out of it and needing help. I don't ask for help often - I'm very independent. I asked him a month in advance to take off the day after so he could be with me (after he asked me repeatedly if he could do anything). I assumed that he would take care of it without needing to be reminded repeatedly. I didn't find out until the day before I was to go in that he "forgot". He always found a way to put me in my place - way below him.

Lying. Utter selfishness. More often than not turning an argument around so she was the victim - even if it was me who was upset at something SHE did. Putting her mother and family ahead of me. The incessant need to "keep up appearances" to family and friends.

Would leave clothes *everywhere* except in the hamper. Mostly piled up against the tub or toilet.

The thing that annoys me the most about my ex is that he is still breathing! lol

I do have a little annouance from my current. He forgets things that he promises to do, then when I ask him about it, somehow it always becomes my fault.

His head was so far up his own ass, that nobody elses opinion mattered..

Ohh and amazing how a garden gnome, could snore sooo loud...

Irresponsibility
Dishonesty
Self centered
Center of his own universe
Stubborn
Snoring
Deodorant ignoring
Halitosis
Once a week underwear changing
Please brush and floss your filthy rotten meaty teeth, beer breath cigar smoking horses ass!

Oh I could go on and on.....

His lies.

I have a few.

He farted at every oportunity. In public, in private, at the dinner table with all of his family there. It didnt matter. Then he would laugh about the sound of said fart.

He also would pull the lint out of his belly button and save it.

Then there were the smelly spit cups in my bedroom, hell in every room! They smelled so bad!

I could probably come up with more, but there are a few.

He lived to work...a workaholic. His career always came first.

His inability to accept any fault in any given situation. It seems to be a genetic trait.......in his family anyway!

He was breathing and walked vertically,...
therefore considered a human being