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What annoyed you the most about your ex?
Mine was incredibly selfish. She acted like the world revolved around her. If she wanted to do something she just did it and didn't think about how it would effect me or anyone else. If she wanted to buy something, she would just buy it and not worry about how much it was or how bad it would set us back.
She also was a Cat Horder. She did fosters for the Humane Society and she would just bring cats home whenever she wanted, not even worrying about the fact that I really didn't like having more than two cats in the house. At one time she had about 20 on the property!
So what bothered you the most?
Mine was incredibly selfish. She acted like the world revolved around her. If she wanted to do something she just did it and didn't think about how it would effect me or anyone else. If she wanted to buy something, she would just buy it and not worry about how much it was or how bad it would set us back.
She also was a Cat Horder. She did fosters for the Humane Society and she would just bring cats home whenever she wanted, not even worrying about the fact that I really didn't like having more than two cats in the house. At one time she had about 20 on the property!
So what bothered you the most?
She could talk. She wasn't disabled. But she couldn't/wouldn't vocalize how she was feeling on anything. Until it was too late.
When we fought and I asked her a hard question, she would shut down. It's not that she was avoiding responding to the question, it's just that she didn't know how to answer, and in response, she shut down. I don't know why she couldn't just say, "I don't know how to answer that question."
He smoked AND he dipped which left spit cans/cups/bottles everywhere.
He didn't know how to clean. Couldn't even take out the garbage.
He ate like a pig (he truly did..i used to hate hearing him eat)
He didn't know what the word "Apologize" was.
Just to name a few
and (are you ready)
pulling out nose hairs
His feet are NASTY. Disgusting. He knew I hated them (I have a foot issue) and he would try and rub them all over me. I hated that too.
Msde, lol with that one. Thanks.
Oh and that he would cut his toe nails and leave them on the sink....(gag and I'm thinking of that)
Gosh it's great to not live with him anymore. :)