Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
5 years ago I met the girl of my dreams she was beautiful smart educated and was a wonderful person to be around. We have the same personality and get along so well she was my best friend. We would talk for hours. 3 years ago we got married and it was the greatest thing for me. I truly adored my wife. But almost 2 years ago we separated, it seems like there are certain instances where we just can't get a long. We have tried many times to rekindle a relationship. But every time we do she ends up thinking of the negative and reconsidering her decision and ends up leaving again. For the past 2 years I have had my heart broken so many times that not healthy. This last time when she left I told her this was it I'm done I can't do this anymore. It's been 6 months since we've been together and 2 months since I've spoken to her. But once again I've come to the realization that I can't live my life with hour. We said we would file divorce papers but neither one of us had done so yet. I know that I won't I haven't heard anything from her yet. I'm hoping I don't. I just don't know what to do thou because it will never change it will always be the same.
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My best friend ruined my day with her immature, bitchy self. If she doesn't get her way, she has a tizzy fit. I told her weeks ago that I couildn't go to yard sales with her on 9/12 because i have a hair appointment. She wasn't happy. I also told her that I don't have any money to go to yard sales. She tried to talk me into going to more yard sales by saying that if I don't go, there...
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The Friday before Labor Day just before we left, the options given to me basically were either quit of be fired, and if I were to stay on I were to be put on an improvement plan, which is pretty much synonymous with getting fired. I was going to do the improvement plan and just ride it out until I found another job due to money and due to the fact that I did not want to quit without another job....
You are right in saying you can't do this anymore. Life is short, my friend. She is not serious about being in a relationship with you. You need to think about yourself, for a change. What do YOU want in your life? Probably not what this woman has been giving you.
Time to date again. Go on online dating sites, apps. Chat with other women on these apps. It will be fun, and take your mind off this ex of yours.
Since you both agreed to file for divorce, just go and do it. She probably won't do it, because the longer married, the more money she gets out of you. Time to think about YOU for once. You need to get out of this marriage so that you are completely available for a new woman in your life.