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Nothing is wrong with being alone at all....
I think we all need to find our internal happiness first, for alot its hard to do that when you've been hurt.

Just takes time.

I don't need a relation ship to be happy. I do need physical affection ship to sail on though. I want someone to caress my skin and hug me from behind. I want soft kisses in the morning between crisp sheets on a Saturday.

nookie?none is so wrong

Ah, yes, BP. Nookie. None is so wrong.

I'm moving out and divorcing for that reason.

haha Nova, then we end up watching till 3am Funniest videos ever

I am accustomed to being alone. What I am not accustomed to, is losing my passion for life.

I am sorry, Kelley...
good words Z....

same as Z on the passion for life thing.

don't know what's wrong with being alone, I sometimes miss someone touching the back of my neck or running thier fingers through my hair. I often wish I had someone who gives a damn to talk too.

I get what you are saying, but humans are wired to desire companship, touch, affection, approval, love. It is proven that we thrive and are healthier and happier when we are loved.

You say you would be ok being alone, but others say "with nookie". If you were truly alone, had no touch, no human contact, how long do you think it would take before you would start to stress?

It's ok, Best. I've been lonely and alone in this marriage for the better part of 12 years. Now it's time to just be alone.

My best friend would always tell me that I was a "married single mom".

Do I long for companionship? Sure. I am saving myself for someone special when it comes to intimacy. I will enjoy physical pleasures through other means.

Absolutely nothing wrong with being alone, and quite honestly, we should all be ok with being alone before we have another relationship. Because then you operate from a position of strength, not weakness or need.

I'm happy on my own. Very happy. But I am worried I might not be able to trust or love someone again.