There is meetup.com Groups that socialize.
Its not a dating site Just people getting together.
I have not gone yet but some on here do go, In
my area they are not any close by 20 mile minimum
And limited. The bigger areas have more to offer.

The whole transitioning was hard when i moved
And after the divorce was more than i could Handle
at the time. I had lots of support and Groups and was
still a huge adjustment and tons of detaching even after
A year of separation. My whole life as i knew It was torn
apart and Different. I still struggle, maybe it just me and
My situation. HUGS

I am even having issue with this. I am so wrapped up in what I have to do I haven't really figured this out. I don't really feel happy or content at the moment but force myself when I can to go out. My kids are younger so many off days I do have them but I really don't know.

I guess we have to take it day at a time. I am fortunate enough that we could get a divorce without waiting a year with separation. ( new Maryland Law) . With mutual agreement and no kids under 18 we were able to just fill out paperwork and get a court date. I am grateful that we are not being mean and nasty, but I find myself pretending alot...I'm fine is a go to phrase, I am looking forward to what is next in my life, but I also want to say I am scared to death and I have no clue what to do ...i guess it doesnt help to know ( I think I know) that he is seeing someone.. He wouldnt tell me if I asked..baby steps everyday baby steps.

I'm sorry to hear this:( I'm fresh out of a breakup and I'm in the same boat, even at 28. I have a couple close friends but they are wrapped up in their own lives so they aren't much of an option. I have gravitated to one person but we're so different it doesn't seem to be any fun to hang with him. Life is so hard sometimes.

How did you work out having a "smooth transition"? Just wondering because I'd like my transition to go smoothly, and I hear so many other people's experiences are not smooth at all.

When I say a smooth transition , I mean we had no minor children to include. I am not seeking Alimony. The only big Item is our house. Neither one of us can afford to live here with out the others help and in our area , we really cant rent or move with out the cost being the same. We do have an adult (23) daughter living with us. He is down stairs in a mini type apt. we both use the same front door and do see each other daily, but live separate lives. When I came to the understanding that there was no use in going forward, I was glad that our state has stopped the one year separation if there are no minor children. We have a separation agreement stating all our terms that we came up with, signed, notarized and filed ourselves. He and I have not argued about possessions, the furniture is mine, he has his down stairs, mine is upstairs. His tools are his, and so on. The house will be sold after our daughter is out of college, and will be divided 50/50 there is nothing really left to argue about. we have been fairly agreeable on all topics. We still like each other, thats were it gets hazy. We don't want to argue over Stuff. The hard part is not our stuff it's our history and relationship we are having issues with( I am anyway). thats the hardest part, moving on is the hardest part...