Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Why is it when I hear my wife say that she going to be with her boyfriend it really hurts me........it's been over two years.......I have made a conscience decision for not to date........and I have turned down many opportunities because I'm a broke toy.......yet it hurts . Yes I still love her, she is the mother of my 3 children....$uck. What make you hurt.......what still stings ?
But its an uncomfortable weirdness...
Thank God he lives 800 miles away.....and usually only have to see him once per yr.
because that split fraction of a second that I first see him....I feel my heart jump in a weird way
Not the way it did when we were together..
But in that familiar weird way of knowing we were once connected.
Its lasts a millisecond... and then all the reminds of the why come in and its back to business as usual of completely disconnecting
Ugh..
It makes me want to seriously vomit.
That he used my kindness against me.
That after 10 years, he became so selfish and forced me to kick him out.
((massive hugs)))))
to cruise through life smelling roses;
but the obstacles blacken the countryside,
and we unwittingly crush them beneath our boots.
Dreams sustain us through the madness;
goals give a finish line to our race.
Yet they change with every turn, around every wall,
and remain elusive throughout the quest.
Mistakes are made, and regrets are our luggage;
we will drag them with us to slow us down.
The victories are flashes of light, sudden and unlasting, which allow us
to glimpse the road ahead before darkness descends.
Love is bitter, yet it is the bread that keeps us.
Over and over it fills us up, only to starve us.
The people whom we love shape our destinies and our strengths,
yet leave us cold and alone in the darkness.
There are others trying to race to the end;
occasionally, we bump into one or two.
The bonds we form help us down the path less lonely
but eventually, we lose each other in the darkness.
Alone is not a bad way to be;
it clears your head and focuses you on the journey.
Cherish the short intervals during the quest you have with others,
but be prepared to walk alone in the darkness