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In regards to sex....is there such a thing as too much of a good thing? What I mean is do you feel that you can have too much sex in a relationship? How much is too much? How much is a good thing?
Part 2: In regards to certain body parts....can you have too much of a good thing? Guys, is there such thing as too much of a good thing in regards to a woman's breast size? Ladies, is there such a thing as too much of a good thing in regards to a guy's size? What is too much of a good thing?
Part 3: Is too much of a good thing really a bad thing?
I am bored and this topic could be fun!
Part 2: In regards to certain body parts....can you have too much of a good thing? Guys, is there such thing as too much of a good thing in regards to a woman's breast size? Ladies, is there such a thing as too much of a good thing in regards to a guy's size? What is too much of a good thing?
Part 3: Is too much of a good thing really a bad thing?
I am bored and this topic could be fun!
But there are some out there... MAN ALIVE... she could cut glass with those!!!! I think it has to do with breastfeeding children...
right?
ME: I think that I might go down to Flordia for Bike Week.
EX: Oh, cool, I could go with you and ride topless on the back of the motorcycle.
ME: That wouldn't bee good, I would get arrest because the Police Officers would think I was a pedifile because you look like a 12 year old with your shirt off.
EX: (Smiling) You suck fat boy!
I will stop the conversation there to keep it PG rate :P
She is tall, attractive, and has , oh ...I don't know...let's just say very large breasts.
Now everyone in the office could have commented on how tall she was, or how pretty or how fashionably she dresses.
But no, all everyone said, young or old, male or female, was " Did you see the size if those ?"
Take from that what you will....
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Alabama controls the sale of sex toys because the legislature believes they promote a "prurient interest in autonomous sex" through "the pursuit of orgasms by artificial means." Actually, I totally agree with that. But where legislatures and courts may find this dangerous, I find it life-affirming, healthy, and good clean fun.
In fact, it raises an interesting question--how do we define "artificial" and "non-artificial" orgasms? Penis = natural, while fingers = artificial? "I love you" = natural, while "I'd like to lick you on Times Square" = artificial? Non-intercourse sex was criminalized in America for over a century precisely because it was considered "unnatural." That's why the right to sodomy is such a big deal, whether you do it or not-because it overturns the paradigm that divides sexual behavior into "natural" and "unnatural." The problem isn't that the wrong things are put into these categories--it's that the categories exist.
The Alabama law allows people to buy sexual devices with a "bona fide medical purpose." If we wish, we could list the medical benefits of virtually every sex toy:
Dildo: strengthens pelvic floor muscles, especially after childbirth
Butt plug: helps men ejaculate, increasing fertility
Cock ring: helps men last longer, facilitating intercourse, increasing fertility
Vibrator: helps prevent atrophy of vaginal tissue after hysterectomy or menopause; also reduces menstrual cramps
But why should we have to do this? It's demeaning to pretend that sex toys are like flu shots, dental floss or laxatives--of interest only to promote our health, and used grudgingly at best.
And how can a state legislature get away with arguing that "pursuing orgasms by artificial means for their own sake is detrimental to health and morality"? This is not a statement based in science, criminology, or medicine. It sounds more like nutty propaganda out of Nazi German, North Korea, or right-wing survivalists. Actually, using sex toys while voting might actually enhance everyone's health and morality.
It's easy to be snide-but-serious about this law:
If an Alabaman makes a dildo from a cucumber, can the grocery store be arrested for peddling obscenity?
Does Alabama plan to sue the U.S. Patent Office for patenting orgasm-producing machines?
Will Alabama start monitoring people's orgasms to make sure they're "natural" and not "artificial?" If you get off on a fantasy of Newt Gingrich or Britney Spears, isn't that about as unnatural as you can get?
In Alabama, you can buy a gun but not a vibrator. Why do they feel the second is more dangerous than the first?
just an odd thing I heard on tv that I thought I would share....
Canada's Supreme Court has exonerated a man convicted of committing an indecent act in 2000, after he was spotted masturbating in his living room near a window. Actually, "spotted" doesn't quite describe it. A neighboring couple reported Daryl Clark to the police after secretly observing him through binoculars for almost 15 minutes.
The complainants, a couple who live next door, said they were worried for their daughters' welfare when they saw Clark in a position that suggested masturbation. The couple then went to their own bedroom to get a better look, brought out binoculars and a telescope, and tried (unsuccessfully) to videotape their neighbor.
But although the original trial judge believed the defendant was unaware he was being watched, he nevertheless convicted him of committing an indecent act, "in a public place, in the presence of one or more persons." So Clark was sentenced to four months in prison. Ultimately, all Canadians are now better off, because one's home has been clearly defined as not a public space. One hopes that Clark's neighbors--voyeuristic, irresponsible, and dangerous to others--had their gear confiscated and ordered to mind their own damn business.
Poor guy! He should have drawn the shade!?
As far as penis size...once again NO it does not matter. But what does matter is if the man is NOT good in the sac then he better make up for it with a HUGE penis.
But it is GREAT in the sac then it doesn't matter what size he it.
A great LOVER is just that a GREAT lover. HE/SHE wil know how to make it work for the both to be satisfied and happy in the sex department.
~Idio
Ladies, thanks for clearing up another assumption that I was wrong about>
Ladies, thanks for clearing up another assumption that I was wrong about>