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Vindictive post got me thinking....

diemjs
diemjs
Not that we really want bad things to happen to our x's, but if they did happen, what would you want to see happen to yours? I think about it a lot, and was wondering what your fantasies were.

This is mine: All the people who he owes money to, the banks, the friends, the family, the loan shark, the IRS, everyone wanted their money from him at the same time! And it was written up in the newspaper! Then, EVERYONE would see what he is really like and know what I was talking about!

Lame, I know, there are more fantasies, but this is the nicest:)

So...whats your fantasy?
deleted_user
deleted_user
The only fantasy I ever had was that he'd take a long, hard look at our relationship and realize that
I
Was
Right.
Well, now that our marriage is over, a week ago, he said those words. He said I was right about a lot of things and he took back a lot of rotten things he said when we were together. Finally.
I didn't feel any better. He needed to see it before I left.
Life sucks.
deleted_user
deleted_user
For me, I cannot spend my life angry. I left my husband cause he was abusive and my fiance left me because he should have never been in a relationship to start out with. Now I need to worry about me. If I worried about them hurting, I would be holding anger inside that would be detrimental to who I am. All of that said, I laughed my butt off at some of y'alls responses.
rainbow
rainbow
I have had things pass my mind also and to read this it is just funny. that he gets dumped after a few years and he can see what it is really like to feel all the pain and hurt that i have gone through. there is more but i find that too nasty and when she finds out what he is really like lol.
rainbow
rainbow
and now that i have said that i no longer want to waste my time thinking about him.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't wish anything bad to happen to him, but I do hope he sees what he did and realizes what he gave up, and I hope he sees it when it's too late.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have to say at the very first I was very vindictive but at this point I just want her get her act together so I can move on with my life and not have worry about her leaching off of me. I am passed angry an on to indifferent, could not careless what she does or who she does it with so long as it is not me.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I would want him to feel the hurt I felt in the beginning; even if for only an hour. I guess I just want him to understand the pain I've gone through.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I wish the IRS would go aftre him-I wish his boat would sink-I wish his sugar mama meal ticket would quit her job to become a housewife-I wish one of his fishing lures would get caught on his sack of non exhistant ball-I could go on-I am a little pissed today.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Misty!! We weren't married to the same guy were we??????????? Mine doesn't fish- but I wouldn't mind a HUGE driver swinging back and neutering the S**T!!
Sandy
deleted_user
deleted_user
Since my exes girlfriend is the one who can't have kids and continues to encourage him to pursue custody of our kids I tend to wish bad things on her. I could care less what the two of them do but the bitch will NOT get my kids no matter how hard she tries. I just wish she would go find someone else who has kids that need a mom. My kids don't need a mom, they have a great one right now and that will never change.