I couldn't wish anything bad on him as he is the father of my children. . . however, the bad things HAVE happened anyways, I think karma is biting him in the butt big time.
1. he has to move in with his parents because he can't afford to live and pay for three kids child support (even though neither I nor his ex get that much, he is a paramedic and doesn't make too much money)
2. his job, which he chose over me, is getting very stressful and sucky
3. he choked yesterday on some food, it got completely suck and he had to be rushed to the emergency room then the ED for a scope and removal. . . (I asked him if he had a come to jesus moment and wanted his family back but I guess he wasn't close enough to death to think of that. no such luck). Anyways he's fine, but it gets you thinking. . .

I want my STBX to be watching the television when I accept the academy award for best adapted screenplay.

I wouldn't really say I fantasize about this because I try not to think of him much at all, but I do think about what he would do if the police came to our door and arrested him on fraud charges. Just to see the look on his face!

Waverley
RU serious - RU really up for an award? If so, I'll be sure to be watching and cheering you on!! San

Right now I'm just working to get to a place where I can wish him well and mean it because my life is so full and my heart so peaceful taht I look back on this and can see it as a blessing.

I would love to see everyone that my ex owes money to come after him too. But my favorite fantasy is to see him and his new wife cheat on him and leave him. I would love to see him go through the pain. Of course it wouldn't be as nearly the same pain he cause me, because we were together for over 22 years and had two kids together. Their relationship is just based on lies, deciet and no self respect.

I'm waiting for the divorce to be final and then I am going to send the LARGEST bouquet of roses with a THANK YOU note to his Wh**e!! The one he left his wife, two kids, two cats, one dog and one GRANDSON for!!!

What a great idea Sandy, I should have done the same thing. But then again Valentine's day is around the corner, and I know that I would probably be the only giving her roses, hahaha.

I can't write it down, it's bad!

Aww, come on Pamela... give us something to dream about

Mine is that I don't spend my time thinking about ex and his GF and what they are doing...

REALLY! I don't care what he does now. I just want to be left alone.

Oh and my revenge is to live a sweet life pursuing my goals and dreams and not caring about what he does.

I want to say, this was supposed to be all in fun. I know all of us dont really want bad things to happen, but we do think about them. If you dont, then you are a bigger person than me. I was just wondering what bad everyone else thought.

Im sorry if I upset anybody.

(I did, btw, I got a message saying so.)

I guess I've reached a point where I don't really think about what I wish would happen to him.

I mean, yeah, on some level it would be satisfying to me if his relationship with HER didn't turn out to be as perfect as he thought it would be. But that's about it.

When I was first separated from my cheating wife and sleeping in an empty house on the floor, I had all kinds of ill wishes against my her. Now that a year has passed, everything that I wanted to hurt her has occurred in spades. I thought that I'd feel satisfaction that her BF(s) have dumped her, her business is in the crapper, her health has deteriorated, clients are suing her, huge legal and medical bills are hitting her, and I've survived just fine. None of this has restored the family I once had and now I am ashamed for wishing terrible things to happen to her. I know that none of her misfortune is my fault but I don't need to take pleasure over it. I know that she regrets all the terrible things that she did to me but she did try like hell to destroy me (and almost did). The truth of the matter is that she thought she was breaking free by divorcing but now realizes that the security of our partnership gave her more freedom than she'll ever have. Still, I can never take her back :-(

I just want him to feel the pain he has inflicted on me and his children and his own mother (who is heartbroken too).