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Just something I found helpful.
1. I can eat whatever I want to now and not feel self conscious about it (he is a vegetarian).
2. I don't have to put up with him kissing me, weird licking my upper front gums and teeth, did he think that is a turn on?
3. I can watch Medea now! He does not like the Tyler Perry movies.
4. I don't get the disapproving look about going out clubbing.
5. I dont feel guilty about meeting other guys now.
Anyone care to share?
Lee
1. I can eat whatever I want to now and not feel self conscious about it (he is a vegetarian).
2. I don't have to put up with him kissing me, weird licking my upper front gums and teeth, did he think that is a turn on?
3. I can watch Medea now! He does not like the Tyler Perry movies.
4. I don't get the disapproving look about going out clubbing.
5. I dont feel guilty about meeting other guys now.
Anyone care to share?
Lee
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I had gone to the grocery store. When I wheeled my cartback to my car I just stool there a minute. A few spacesaway a Tesla Cyber truck was parked. I had seen it on theroad a few times for a few seconds. But not close up.It looked like it belonged to 2126 and not 2026. I wasgoing to take a picture of the car but the owners cameback and drove away. It was an ordinary middle age...
2.I can come home from work and not clean the house if I don't want to.
3.I can put on clothes or makeup with out him being negative.
4. I can cook and my cooking is apreciated.
5. I can go to school if I want to.
6. I can eat whatever I want
I do not have to deal with his selfishness.
I do not have to worry about saying the wrong thing.
I can have a glass of wine and know that the bottle will not be gone in one setting!
2. I can write out a check and not get the disapproving look of "you should use online banking."
3. I can control the thermostat!
4. I can wear whatever I want to bed!
2. I can hog the whole bed
3. The bottom shelf of the fridge is no longer for beer, and I have FOOD in there now
4. No one is here to complain that the house is too clean
5.I can pay my bills on time without having to worry if a check is going to bounce
6.I can have the furniture in my house the way I want it.
7. I can sit out on my front deck in the middle of the night without someone complaining I am not spending time with him
8. I can concentrate on my son, without having to worry about someone telling me I am spending too much time with the boy.
9. I can watch what I want on the TV
10. I can walk both my dogs at the same time without someone complaining that I spend too much time with them..
I think my STBX was just a little controlling
2. Colin Farrell
3. Russell Crowe
4. Sam Elliott
5. Dwayne Johnson
1) I can stop somewhere on my way home from work/come home late and not have him guilt me into feeling bad about it
2) I can build a savings account that he won't touch/spend/sabotage
3) I can travel wherever/whenever I want
4) I can be as loud or active as I want in the mornings when I get ready for work
5) I can finally be myself (never realizing, of course that I wasn't with him around)
6) I can relax basically all the time now
i work nights, so i'm up in the middle of the night on my nights off and i can have all the lights on if i want.
i can lay in bed and read.
i don't have to go food shopping if i don't want to.
i don't have to pay his bills anymore.
i don't have to listen to his huge grandiose schemes.
I don't have to hear him constantly telling me to "get a job".
If I get sick I don't have to worry about him getting mad at me.
And most of the above comments.
not clean enough.
no more having to listen to his mother saying to close the windows because the night air is bad for you. or take that off the wall
because it is not a nice thing. Or any comments from his family
that my beautiful children were not going to go far in life.
(son got 2 trade licences and daughter is in university.
Can go and do what I want without him complaining.
Basically, I got my freedom back.
2. I don't have to put his career first.
3. I don't have to pick up his dirty socks from the floor all over the place any more
4. I can watch lifetime if I want to. (he hated that channel)
5. I go where I want to see who I want to and do anything I want to.
2. I don't have to deal with his horrible moods after he works a 24 shift.
3. I get to go running when I get home from work.
4. I don't have to worry about making dinner every night... a bowl of cereal is fine with me!
5. I don't feel guilty doing things for myself.
6. When I go shopping, I don't have to justify my purchases!
Sweet, hot celebs and hot real life guys are a great way to forget him! A hunky handiman who wants to fix me dinner (he's taken gourmet cooking) is coming over tomorrow... LOL!
Lee
2. My grocery bill has been cut in half
3. My credit card balance is actually getting paid down now.
4. I am not always anxious about what he is doing, who he is doing it with and what mood he will be in