Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I have been thinking about this a lot lately and I am a firm believer in this. Let me give you an example on how this has proved true in my life.
4 years ago I was a motor officer for two months. I laid a bike over and they took me off of the motor. At the time I really wanted to be a motor officer and it was a huge set-back to be taken off of the motor.
A few months later one of my very good friends in the Department, who was the other motor officer, was riding and doing a funeral procession. A vehicle cut through the funeral procession and he hit this vehicle. He was ejected from his motorcycle. He was in a coma for over a month and he has never fully recovered.
If I had been a motor officer still I would have been riding with him when this happened and this is a memory I don't want. There is another motor officer that has this image and it haunts him. Worse yet, if I didn't quit it could have been me and I would have been damaged for life (he did suffer some brain damage as a result for this crash).
Someone was looking out for me when I got pulled off of the motor. It seemed horrible at the time but now I look back and say "Damn I am glad that happened and things turned out this way."
I am now looking at my divorce in the same way. This thing could have gone on for years and years and happened to me later on in life and it would have been even harder to re-start. I have a fresh chance to find someone else who will fit me better and who will wants kids, like me.
I know that someday in the future I will look back and say "Damn I am glad that happened and things turned out this way."
4 years ago I was a motor officer for two months. I laid a bike over and they took me off of the motor. At the time I really wanted to be a motor officer and it was a huge set-back to be taken off of the motor.
A few months later one of my very good friends in the Department, who was the other motor officer, was riding and doing a funeral procession. A vehicle cut through the funeral procession and he hit this vehicle. He was ejected from his motorcycle. He was in a coma for over a month and he has never fully recovered.
If I had been a motor officer still I would have been riding with him when this happened and this is a memory I don't want. There is another motor officer that has this image and it haunts him. Worse yet, if I didn't quit it could have been me and I would have been damaged for life (he did suffer some brain damage as a result for this crash).
Someone was looking out for me when I got pulled off of the motor. It seemed horrible at the time but now I look back and say "Damn I am glad that happened and things turned out this way."
I am now looking at my divorce in the same way. This thing could have gone on for years and years and happened to me later on in life and it would have been even harder to re-start. I have a fresh chance to find someone else who will fit me better and who will wants kids, like me.
I know that someday in the future I will look back and say "Damn I am glad that happened and things turned out this way."
IF God was watching out for you and took you off of your bike so you wouldn't get hit, THEN that means God wasn't watching out for the guy who took your place and di get hit.
It's not twisting it, you're glad you're not the guy who had the coma.
If what heave says works for him well, good for him, diff perspectives for diff people.