Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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TML67 11/15/2011

I love calling the house and getting her on the phone, her wee voice sqeeks and for that brief moment all the pain goes away and my heart fills up.

I know a lot of folks on this board are hurting I hope you find what I found to help take the hurt away if it's just for a moment.

Peace

deleted_user 11/16/2011

Last night my daughter came and snuggled with me in bed for a little while as I was watching a movie. She rarely does that. She has such a need to feel independent and prove she's mature that he doesn't want anyone helping her in any way and even pushes off affection at times. (too much like mom) It was nice to have her relax with me, even if it was only for 10 minutes.

Karenhopeful 11/16/2011

For me to--when I questioned the marriage and felt like it was all such a waste--I realise that if that is how 4 marvelous beings were to come into my life--well so be it--very small ''price'' to pay.

I got the two best things out of my marriage--my children and my own spiritual and emotional growth from the pain. It is more than enough.

TML67 11/16/2011

Wow Karen........what a powerful insight on your behalf, "my children and my own spiritual and emotional growth from the pain. It is more than enough"

Bravo for having the ability find positive in pain

deleted_user 11/16/2011

karen,

I agree with TML

((hugs))

deleted_user 11/16/2011

Thanks for the reminder to be grateful for the little things. I too often say I wasted 20 years, then I think of my 14 yo daughter, and it was worth it.

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