Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I appreciate everyone's continued support, I really do!
I am debating taking (most) my exes family off my Facebook. For two reasons, one we don't talk anyways. Especially since our last break up, I was ostracized from most of them. Two, I really don't want to have to look at postings of the child my ex had with another woman. I know that sounds shitty, but it is what it is. I do have love for his family and hope they are well, but I'm beginning to feel this is going to be a necessary evil.
I do have relationships with couple of his family members which I could unfollow if needed.
My longtime friend whom he has the child with. Will prolly be the most difficult one. We were two peas in a pod for years. Yea, there was distance between us because life happens. I do care about her and her kids; even the child she has with my now ex. I should hate her but I don't. I should want to kill her, but I don't. I do feel deeply betrayed by her. I wouldn't have slept with her ex, imo I think that goes against girl code.
I'm so conflicted, but thanks again for letting me vent ❤
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My best friend ruined my day with her immature, bitchy self. If she doesn't get her way, she has a tizzy fit. I told her weeks ago that I couildn't go to yard sales with her on 9/12 because i have a hair appointment. She wasn't happy. I also told her that I don't have any money to go to yard sales. She tried to talk me into going to more yard sales by saying that if I don't go, there...
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The Friday before Labor Day just before we left, the options given to me basically were either quit of be fired, and if I were to stay on I were to be put on an improvement plan, which is pretty much synonymous with getting fired. I was going to do the improvement plan and just ride it out until I found another job due to money and due to the fact that I did not want to quit without another job....
You can unfollow them all and and you will not see their post but if they want to reach to you they can.
Great job, keep it up!
While I understand you are friends with his family, at least unfollow. Than you won't see them. I don't think there is anything wrong with unfriending either. If the family, or you want to talk, I'm sure you have numbers or emails.
It's going to take time for the wound to heal. Seeing that stuff will just keep hurting you.
Personally, I have unfriended my ex and her family. Blocked them even. Not because i didn't have a relationship but because that relationship is over with her. Maybe someday I'll refriend them, but not for a long time.