Mark - I'm sorry for your pain - stick with us here and see if you can get cheered up a bit.

I'm sorry Mark!
Yeah, it hurts. I've found that I can get interested in all kinds of new things right now. I'm picking up old hobbies again. I chat on the computer at night. I play pool and bacgammon online. Keeping busy will be important. Don't give in to moping.
You're not alone, you have us!
Love, Peace and Hugs

{{hugs}} I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this. All you can do at this point is let her go as much as it is killing you. I have found that no matter how hard that you try, you can't force somebody to be with you or to love you. You need to focus on you now and how you can be strong. Keep reading here and move forward one step at a time.

Thank you guys..nothing seems to matter right now.. know i'll eventually shake it but this is just pure hell!

i'm so very very sorry..stick with us kid..talk talk talk to us,,get it out!

I am sorry for your pain Mark, we all understand how hard it is. Do your best to stay active. You will still have your moments, but try your best not to allow them to overtake everything.

Just crying like a little kid..can't stop. This is just such a devastating loss.

it is so hell in the beginning and will be for awhile, but not far from now, you'll find yourself smiling, and little by little and slowly you'll be moving on and healing

Sending some encouragement your way! I'm sure it was really difficult. Maybe this was the "ripping the bandaid off" day, and now every day will be better.

I'm in the opposite position--trying to get up the courage to move to another city (across country, actually), and the former love-of-my-life seems extremely indifferent. His main focus seems to be that I don't get one more penny of support than he is legally required to give. Sad times here, for all of us.

Ultimately I think you will feel better with all of her belongings out so your place can start to reflect only the wonderful you I'm sure you are. I think all these little reminders of them just keep our wounds from healing.

Good luck and take care of yourself.

Thank you guys you are the VERY best!! Mark

Hey Mark - it is hard - mine did the same thing; the indifference is worse than any anger. It does get better, in time, but at the moment it does feel like hell. I told a friend it felt like I had been convicted and punished for a crime I didn't commit.

Hi Mark, I'm so sorry for what you are going through. That's quite a blow...only 4 weeks and she moves to a totally different city? I can barely finish a home project in 4 weeks, much less move to a different city!

Hang in there. Cry all you need to. Ask for hugs and support over and over here. Talk to friends or family if you can. It will eventually get better...just maybe not right now. Give yourself some time. It has to be a total shock to you right now.

We're here for you. (((meddle)))

Hi Mark, so sorry for your heartache, it is such a lonely time for you.

Make some changes in your home. Move things around, get some new bedding for your bed, nice stuff. Get some beautiful plants, something you have to take care of. Have some people over, go out for a bit. Try anything to take your mind off of all of this even if it is just alittle bit. Paint a few walls different colors, colors you would never have picked before.

Take care of yourself Mark, know that I am thinking of you and understand how hard this is.

Hugs to you friend

Mark - I am so sorry to hear how much pain you are in. I know that words won't take away the pain but we are all here for you. I know how horrible that day is when the love of your life moves out - I've been there - and although it can be a very slow process I promise the pain will start to go away and you will start to heal -

Mark, I am so sorry hon. I am finding that the hits just keep on comin' in this process.
I wish it could happen all at once and be over with but it doesnt work that way.
I wish I could say some magic words to make it better :(
Stick with us, we will get you through this rough day